Is it normal to want revenge for someone killing or hurting your famil

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when i was six years old my uncle was going to baby sit me but my mother decided to let him have fun on his birthday that night he was walking a girl home whom he and some other guy liked but she ended up leaving with my uncle which the other guy must have hated, while they where walking on the road the other guy tried running them over what the cops called a "drunk" driver as there was no signs of stopping my uncle pushed the girl out of the way sacrificing him-self in the process. the "drunk" driver's case was settle out of court where he only got three years in jail and was never allowed into the native reservation he is from again my question is

is it wrong to want revenge and kill this person painfully as he made my whole family suffer since the justice system failed so badly?.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I think it's relatively normal to want revenge; it's not smart or good for you or the rest of your family, and it won't bring your uncle back. I don't think your uncle would want you to ruin your life by murdering someone and ending up in jail. I'm truly sorry for your loss.

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    • handsignals
      8 years ago

      Oh, so now you want revenge on me, OMG when will this war end?

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        No dear. Are you high now?

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        • handsignals
          8 years ago

          I thought this was a thing we were all doing, it's kinda exhausting and boring, and how come this itsnotnormal guy didn't pick on me, I feel left out.

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          • orochimaru666
            8 years ago

            if i seen it i would have replied to you i didnt learn about what really happened to the guy until i was twelve

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            • handsignals
              8 years ago

              Sorry dude I was just being a dumb ass, didn't even read your post.

              Until just then, dude I watch shit loads of documentaries bout prison and there's a lot of guys like you who get revenge and just end up rotting in prison. It sux what happened to your uncle but just move on and live your life.

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago

            It's okay.
            :-)

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  • orochimaru666
    8 years ago

    thanks everyone for most of ur psovitve comments i was just really depressed last night when i typed it out becuase one of my friends asked why i dont trust people or have a hard time trusting someone

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  • IINtobeonthiswebsite
    8 years ago

    Think of the Brady Bunch commercial for Snickers...."eye for an eye, that's what Dad always says!!!!" ;)

    Now, with that said, nobody blames you for having the feelings, but, acting on those feelings is different, and then, you are no better than the person who killed your uncle, and, your soul is in jeapardy.

    You don't want to run the risk of spending quality years of your life behind bars.

    Take the high road. Forgive the killer...but, that doesn't mean you forget your Uncle or what this killer took from you. Like the other person said, killing that man doesn't bring your Uncle back.

    Some day you will meet your maker, and, you will see your Uncle again, and he will be glad you took the high road.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I wouldnt blame you if you did, just dont get caught.

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  • Darkoil
    8 years ago

    I agree this person deserves to die or at least be tortured for a while but would that justice be worth you throwing your life away for?

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