Ask Your Question today
I Have had some crap from people over the years, from bullies' to rip offs, builders to painters etc etc etc. I have time on my hands at the moment and long to take revenge in anyway suitable for that person. Will i feel better though?
Nope. Revenge only puts you at the same level as the fuckwad that shit on you in the first place. The best revenge is to forget about it and be happy.
I feel the same, I have a whole list of people I want to poke in the eyes.
Completely normal. But no you don't want revenge. In the Bible/Hammurabi's Code, it mentions "eye for an eye". And as great as that would feel, there is definitely high chance that things will not be even, but instead they will feel as if they are now bullied and victimized making YOU the bad guy, which is not how you want to approach this. Be the better person definitely and let mother nature/karma take its toll.
I can tell you one thing, if I could I would take revenge on every single person that I thought slighted me.
And it would feel great.
Perfectly Normal in my opinion to remember all those times that people made you feel small, or taken advantage of; and even more normal to want revenge. But coming from somebody in the same boat, trust me when I say it won't help. It won't make those feelings go away. You just have to do right by you. You have the rest of your time to make sure you keep being a cool person, and the next time somebody tries to belittle you, or take advantage of you, stand up for yourself, laugh in their face and walk away.
You know what the best revenge is? Not taking revenge at all, but instead making the next person who treats you like shit feel stupid. Example: tell them that they are being a complete asshole at the moment in time.
24 vote Normal not nuts This person want revenge on all it seems not just one.
REVENG ha It's best served cold and void of emotion mate. Take your time plan and execute with percussion Good Luck
Samurai Warrior Style
It's very normal to want revenge. But if you're patient, you'll find that what goes around, comes around. I was in love with a handsome MD who dumped me for a much younger woman. He ended up being
fired from the hospital by his own brother. Last I heard he wasn't workng and he lost his mind. I'm sane and I am doing well.
What randomjelly says is true. Besides people are usually mean beacause they are messed up in some way. Either way revenge will only make you feel better is your a psycopath so don't go psycopath on us. Also take up a hobby of you have time on your hands or spend time with family I'm sure they'd appreciate it.