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I am completly in love with the guy I'm with, we are in a commited relationship. But sometimes, ok a lot of times, I imagine what it would be like to have sex with other people. Maybe it's because he's the only guy I've been with? I don't know, but is this normal?
Without temptation, what would commitment be?
Everyone has these thoughts, so don't feel guilty. As long as you don't act on them, you shouldn't feel bad; resisting such urges strengthens your relationship.
My guy will only give me oral sex like maybe twice per week so I let my x boyfriend give me face at work every day
Not normal. It will end in tears for you in a few years when you can't hold off anymore
It is, and sometimes people prefer relationships that allow them to fool around or even have multiple people dating each other, but few people can pull off such a lifestyle choice.
It would really be normal if you wanted me as the other man. Otherwise no. lol
Thanks. I also want to clarify that it isn't any paticular guy or I see a guy and think I wonder what it would be like to sleep with him. It's more of a in general what it would be like to be with someone different.
It is normal. I went through it with my X. I tell you DON'T follow through with any wild thoughts though.. I wanted to so many times. I knew our relasonship wasnt going to last- i didnt make him happy- Probally why i thought of other men and sexual experinces. I left knowing i didnt make him happy, i slept with other people and its NOT worth it, one moment with my x back would make up for sex with brad pitt. Its normal, stay focused no your man , your realsonship- possibly try a sex shop? try watching some porn? anything to make it different exciting and excellent :-)
I had the same fantasy for years after marriage and I managed to share it with my husband. My dream came true lst summer in Jamaica and I had gangbans while my husband was part of it. Tell him what you fancy and if he really wants you happy, he will agree to that, but remember, RIGHT PEOPLE, RIGHT TIME AND RIGHT PLACE..
Best of luck
yep, i have the same thing, and he's my only one too. But most of the time i feel very satisfied. I have a long-standing little ' crush ' on one of my profs. But obviously i'd never do anything with him. So yes, of course i think about it. It doesn't matter what i think, though, because my bf is great to me and loves me a lot. And it's not about who YOU think about.. it's about the fact that HE thinks about you ;) be happy because many girls don't have that. Also, its about not acting on the impulses. Don't ruin a good thing.
You are young and this is your first relationship, more improtantly first sexual partner! You must enjoy your body and those you are attracted to. Give it a go and don't take any single man / woman too seriously at this point. Use your body, enjoy it and blow your mind!
Perfectly normal...you haven't had enough dick yet. Until you spread yourself around and be slutty, you will never know what a pathetic lay your boyfriend is.
It is normal! You totally speak out of my mind. My boyfriend is also my first one and I have this thoughts ALL the time. Font worry it's sooo normal !
I don't want to cheat on the guy I'm with. Just needed to know if the fantasies were normal.
If you are truly in love with this guy,I don't think sex would be as good with anyone else. Cherish what you have.
Take no notice, if your not getting
G everything you need from the guy your in love with and need to have extra sex that cool and much easier that of your a guy. With a guy you have all the chat & chase with a girl or woman it's just letting your encounter know your up for it. Then just lay back and enjoy your new encounter. But one guy once only, you do not want a relationship to develop & spoil what you have at home.
I get really turned on when I have sex with a new girl then go home and have sex with my wife. I always pay to play to save complications it's about the same price for a high class escort as it is for dinner & drinks. I get the things my wife don't want to do so it's hard sex for hard cash.
Enjoy your body while you can. Your a long time fat pregnant and fat afterwards.
You're not really in love with him. If you were, then other men would be invisible to you. You will eventually cheat on him. How sad.