Is it normal to want other girls and not want them at the same time?

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I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years, and I absolutely love her. Unfortunately we live very far apart, and every now and then I get the urge to flirt with girls that I'm already friends with, and get a little jealous if there in a relationship or if I see them be intimate with others. Im more then sure if I was with my girlfriend more often I wouldn't mind so I try not to think about it. I'm just confused and want others opinions please.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    I love my boyfriend, and when he's not around and my friends are making out with their boyfriends or being intimate, I get very lonely and jelouse. I don't know about your urge to flirt with other girls, but I understandthe jelouse feeling. Be strong

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  • pixiedust&nightglow
    11 years ago

    You're a guy. Of course its normal. Shit it's not just normal it's natural. That being said, jealousy is a trait that all of us posses. It is a bad trait yes, but it happens because normally when we see people with something that we know we cant have (in your case, a girlfriend that lives close and you can see her every day) our brain tells our heart "You cant have that, Think!" and all your heart can reply with is "That's your job. I'm just here for the love". It happens to all of us so don't worry. You should save up your money and get vacation tickets somewhere random for both of yall to get away for like a week so you can spend unforgettable time with her.. just a thought. Best of luck(:

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  • nels360b
    12 years ago

    Thank you to, and I just want to say that i may think to do but I'd never do anything to hurt my gf (person with the problem)

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    • Ryan556
      11 years ago

      What's your age? You could allwayse move in if you are old enough or drive to go see her she's your gf

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  • ggeineg
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal because you are just looking for companionship, something to fill the void when you can't see your gf. But it's all mental I think. If you rly love your gf, you have to be strong and pull through. Dont risk an amazing relationship by flirting with other girls just bcuz you are feelin lonely cuz u wil regret it in the long run. Goodluck! :)

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