Is it normal to want my wife to be a call girl or an adult actress?

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I fantasize about this all the time, my wife is very hot and very sexual but, never would do anything of the sort, of that I'm sure! The thing is that I have these fantastic mental movies about her actually going through with it. It's not degradation what I'm looking for, just that I'm sure she would enjoy it. It's my wife and I know her.. How do I even get to the conversation that will lead me to telling her what I want her to do?

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jondoerandom

11 years ago

Err.. that's too weird for me. I'm going back to read about incest and dog-fucking. No comment.

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Anonymous Post Author

11 years ago

So I just manned up and told her that I have that fantasy, that I know its something strong to take in, but its the truth!

Shot down, and hard!!! But did leave the option to have a gangbang, which is her fantasy.. So at the end it worked out, she felt that she was being selfish, but explained that there was no chance in hell

Now to the real difficult part. No small penises, no freaks from crgslist or any weird websites, every guy has to bring proof of being std free, which I can completely understand and agree, its just that its very hard to find a group like that. Thinking of going dorr to door on this one! ;-)

Thank you for everyones advice!

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Anonymous Post Author

11 years ago

Forget all about the porn/hooker thing. Gangbangs are working out great, she loves them, loves the attention. All I do is watch, but it's a great thing to watch. We've been doing this once a week for the past month or so. Yesterday we had 8 guys come over. It's such an incredible sensation. I'm out of words..

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- elisabeth
  
  9 years ago
  
  pic?
  
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BLAh81

11 years ago

Jeez, wouldn't it make you feel inadequate as a man?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Not really, I think one is able to separate sex as an activity when you do it together as a couple, no matter what is going on. Mind you, I have not done any of this yet, so that's pure theory right there. I will update when this happens, if it actually does happen.
  
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Justsomejerk

11 years ago

You could ask her to hooker up and stand on the street corner so you could drive up and rent her for a couple of hours. Then you could try to step the fantasy up from there. I read a hot story where a guy did this and another curb crawler with the same car as the husband picked up his wife.

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Anonymous Post Author

11 years ago

Here's the thing, I know that she would love it, I have gotten her opinion on her being with other men, even though she likes the fact, she just doesn't find it right because we are married, the fact of me wanting to share her, I thinks she takes it as a lack of love.. She has been gangbanged before, but she wasn't in a relationship then, it was just something that happened with some guys. I'm sooo turned on by it, but at the same time, it sucks that she feels that I don't love her enough if I am able to share her.

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FocoUS

11 years ago

"How do I even get to the conversation that will lead me to telling her what I want her to do?"

Oh boy here it comes... DON'T TELL HER WHAT TO DO! ESPECIALLY IF IT'S ABOUT HER OWN BODY! Just because a woman is hot and sexual it doesn't mean she wants to get pimped out. My advice is drop it. This isn't the kind of question where if she says "no" you just accept it and get on with life. The worst answer isn't "Nah, I don't feel like it" the worst answer is "What! How could you even ask me that?" Sir, a fantasy is a fantasy and you're not weird for thinking those thoughts. But don't expect things to go to smoothly when you tell your wife you think it'd be hot if she pimped herself out.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Completely agree.. I'm not thinking of asking her! It was just a matter of speaking.
  
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  - FocoUS
    
    11 years ago
    
    There are plenty of men that have a fantasy like yours. They normally take it by steps. Instead of asking your wife to have sex with another man tell her that you want to see her masturbate while you watch. That's a good step one.
    
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  - Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    
    11 years ago
    
    Too bad. I mean really what you should consider is this....
    
    COMMUNICATION
    both of you create a list of your deepest sexual fantasies
    a list of what you never want to try
    and a list of what you don't want but will try if your partner wants it.
    
    sure it means baring your soul to your partner and it can be scary but... you may also find that some of your fantasies match up too
    
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    - shade_ilmaendu
      
      11 years ago
      
      There's actually something like this online. It's meant for artists who do erotica to tell commissioners what they will or will not draw, but couples could easily use it to map out their fantasies too.
      
      I know I'm into some weird things. My boyfriend and I go onto a very private sort of cam site for fun sometimes. :P I always thought sex work would be fun to get into, especially some sort of cam thing or modeling, but I'm sort of afraid of doing something so tabboo. I feel like a lot of people who become more well known with that become trapped into that sort of work. I don't want my career as an artist to suffer because society is prudish.
      
      I can imagine going to intervie with google someday and hearing "well, we found some incriminating photos of you on the internet..."
      
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      - Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        
        11 years ago
        
        you might also want to check out polyamory weekly
        
        although they often focus on open relationships, much of their advice can also work for just regular couples too
        
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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

11 years ago

"degradation"

This is the one thing I take issue with. You are mistaken if you think porn is degrading to women.

The only "degradation" in porn is the way some females think they have the right to impose their own narrow-minded views on to other women and use it as an excuse to be judgmental and holier-than-thou.

I'd say talk to your wife about your desires. It doesn't have to be porn or prostitution but just that you have a role play fantasy. Instead of going into the "industry" it may be better to just see if she's willing to try a threesome instead, or as a start.

but above all else, communicate

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  I didn't mean degradation like you think. I meant that I'm not interested in that, I'm not one to judge.
  
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- FocoUS
  
  11 years ago
  
  Pornstar is one thing but a Call Girl is degrading.
  
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  - Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    
    11 years ago
    
    To whom?
    
    In Nevada where it's legal the prostitutes earn a fucking lot of money - 100K for one week of work. How is that degrading?
    
    http://people.emich.edu/tsonntag/engl444/printtoweb/tax_revenue.html
    
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    - FocoUS
      
      11 years ago
      
      It's not about the money. An expensive whore is still a whore.
      
      To whom? I think the percentage of people that consider prostitution degrading is a tad higher than those that find it respectable.
      
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      - Northwoods4me
        
        9 years ago
        
        OK, so my wife's an expensive whore, but she makes 300k+ a year & is very experienced, which I get to enjoy!
        
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      - Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        
        11 years ago
        
        "An expensive whore is still a whore. "
        
        Of course they are... if the people judging them feel it's OK to look down on them like that.
        
        That's what the whole "porn is degrading" whine is about - about putting other women down for making different choices when it comes to sex.
        
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--ash--

11 years ago

Start with telling her how much money she could be making when your
Pimping her out & selling video's of the action!

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