Is it normal to want my boyfriend around so much?

I think that your boyfriend need to let go of the pat and embrace the future...the time to spend with you. What you are feeling is completely normal. It seems like somethings up with him. He needs to pull his end of this relationship together...you can't just be walking down a one road street it's not healthy for you!

Well since you posted your intimate details on a site like this you are going to have to expect to get some crap.
I'm going to tell you what i see, not saying you are going to like it, but if you are posting this it means you're desperate for advice or help so hopefully you'll atleast read it.

It sounds like the relationship is dead. Sorry.
You break up with people for a reason it's not just some random thought that walks into your head.

He isn't over that you didn't take him back right away so he is using that as ammunition to hurt you because he still feels hurt and doesn't know how to deal with that emotion.

You want him to be like what he was. But that was the past. Stuff has happened in between now and then that you can't just so easily forget.

You say he doesn't text you as much or whatever but is he always the one to start texting? Have you ever annitiated the texts? So he knows you are thinking of him?

He sounds likehe has built up ressentment and you will seemingly put up with anything that he gives you. Because if he is with you but treats you like crap it seems to be better than being alone. No. It is better to have self respect and not get treated like a doormat. He is taking you for granted which isn't cool. The more he draws away the more you want him, which is a destructive little circle.

It would be best to have a serious conversation with him. Not yelling at him or anything, make a list of things you want to say/discuss in a calm manor. If he won't listen then he isn't helping the relationship and the relationship isn't helping you. You can't do it all yourself. Relationships aren't one way streets, they just aren't.

I think you alrady know what must be done. People that ask for advice already know what they have to do they just don't want to accept it. (that's a quote from somewhere)

tc x

I think she's 14 and this site is for 18 and up.

i never broke up with my fiance but the past few months he isnt as sweet or romantic!... no more letters from him but he says he loves me.. he says he misses me sence we dont talk as much as at the begining of our relationship

Oh and don't bother ever posting on this again. The site and password (which I didn't memorize so once I sign out I can't even get back in) Are being deleted from my computer Lol. Like damn. Rude as people. It's like a formspring or whatever. Some anonymous bored rude people get on here to put people down. And I didn't even read these. I read like the first line and instantly saw rudeness. But thank you to the people that were decent. None of any of your guys advice was needed.

Thanks for the shitty/rude advice. I now know to never post on here again. I read other peoples post about the same things and they had respectful responses. You.Do.Not.Know.me. Don't you ever try and tell someone they are boring/doormat. I wanted an outside opnion on this, not responses that attempt to make me feel crappy about myself? Doesn't that make you feel like a piece of crap? To tell someone you don't know personally at all that kind of stuff? And Actually jerks, I talked to my boyfriend for a long time about these problems and we have understood each others problems clearly now. And we are 100% getting an apartment within the next 2 months. He is excited and has told me all the plans. We also just put in to get our 2 favorite puppies when we move out. Not only did we express everything to each other tonight but he told me how much he realizes what's been going on and he knows we know each other better than anyone ever has. He's been my best friend for 5 years when I met him in Japanese class at our high school. So don't talk to me like i'm ignorant about how much I know him.

You are waaaaayyyy needy and that is extremely unattractive. Also if one of you thinks they don't deserve the other then it will NOT work out, guaranteed.

We all go a little nutty over our first loves. It would be best for you to distance yourself far away from this guy and focus on what makes you great.

I'm 19. A freshman in college for veterinarian Technology and your rude comments aren't necessary, so please excuse yourself from this post.
-Thanks.

Either.. 1. Treat him the best you can, and
See if you get any results soon.
Or 2. Move on.

Daaaaaaayyyyyyyyum! I actually feel really sorry for you, maybe his heart genuinely is broken, does he throw that in your face when you argue? If you're the same and he's changed then yes I agree, something with him doesn't add up.
Maybe you need to lay off him a little, let him come to you instead of chasing him around, if you do split up he's going to make you feel like such an idiot.
It's not fair on you at all, I know you love him and you can tell how passionate you are BUT if you're not happy because he's not the same, is it worth it? You may not see it now but hopefully something will click in your head to make a decision. You only have one life and you don't want to waste it with someone who doesn't feel the same

Your bf is playing the game!

Yes he is trying to get his own back but he is also holding back from you to make sure you never get the chance to hurt him as deeply as before! The first time round he thought you were wonderful and unique, now he just thinks you're a boring clingy female.

He had the opportunity to grow up and away from you, in those 6 months apart and realised everyone needs to have mates when the relationship turns sour. He is now making sure he has the support network if it hits the fan again.

You MUST show him that you are not a doormat to be disrespected! A doormat is not fun to be with - so he prefers his mates, obviously!

Please do not consider moving in with him as the relationship will deteriorate even further and much more quickly. Give this guy some space to let him work out what he feels for you. If he thinks you're confident and fun, he will be back with a vengence!!

Remember that it's human nature to want what you can't have!
So if you are too available he won't want you :o(