Is it normal to want more than just my boyfriend?

I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months, but have cheated on him multiple times. I told him, and we're still together, but he says if I do it again, he's gone. I'm doing all I can not to cheat again, but it seems it's just my nature. It's happened in the past with other boyfriends. In my mind it's like, "Alright. No more guys. I need to stick with my boyfriend, and that's fine. I shouldn't need more..." But my body says, "You want other guys don't you. Go get them. It's not thaaaaaat bad..." I don't know what to do! Why do I want more than him!

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  • beatnick

    I have the same problem, most girls don't want me when they know i'm polygamic. I got lucky now, i got a girlfriend who knows i'm polygamic, and she's still with me.
    Having a relationship is something more than sex. you can have sex with anyone. but you love only one.
    "Cheating" is telling lies. as long as you tell your boyfriend, it's not cheating. he should be glad you're sincere.

    PS: if you ever break up with him, i want to meet you. i could meet you even if you break up with him.

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  • DearLoveiHateYou

    Your not satsified with your relationship and it seems like he might have you on a long leash. He respects that you told the truth,but he warned you he'll leave. Part of your nature? Please, i know we have temptations but dont let them get the best of you. How could you even bear his trust knowing you cheated on him and he obviously loves you enough that he'll still stay with you? If you keep with your habit, you wont have healthy relationships and will remain not trustworthy and unhappy. You may be young, and want to enjoy and have fun but playing people ruins it for others. What if you had a strong romantic interest in someone and you found out they had a significant other? Wouldent be so dandy,would it? Put yourself in his shoes and you might at least get a hint of what your doing or thinking about is completely WRONG. So you mightve had a bad heartbreak,and are afraid of commitment and your trying to taste different flavors of icecream, but it sounds like your mooching or USING others. If you have commitment issues, then i think you should give your boyfriend back the leash and sort out your ways. If you loved or at least care for him, then you should let him go and not suffer with distrust and worrying thought of you cheating. Maybe you'll learn a lesson or two. I know this advice is a little harsh, but the truth hurts.

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  • darwinswaitingroom

    So.... At this point is there any tread left on the tires or is it like throwing a hotdog down a hallway?

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  • hyacinth11

    Is it the attention from the other guys that's turning you on? People with low self esteem are more likely to cheat, so look into yourself a bit and try to see where your problems lie. You might simply not be cut out for a monogamous relationship, in which case you should stop being in one. You're only hurting him.

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  • Katie_Kyla

    First, I would like to say to all the people writing judgmental comments, study grammar along with spelling so you sound somewhat intelligent. Second, I would like to say yes you are normal, no it is not okay to continue doing this, and I do agree that it might be a self confidence issue. I have been there and understand but either way, it isn't healthy. Don't take these ignorant comments too seriously because that OBVIOUSLY won't help your self confidence. To the rest of you, read a damn book! Ugh

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  • TisNormalindeed

    To all of you little immature girls calling her a slut, your all idiots. its human nature to be horny or long for someone. as long as shes safe and breaks up with her guy.

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  • TWhip

    No, being a whore isn't normal.

    Brake up with your boyfriend, be a whore, mature, then look for a boyfriend.

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  • randomjelly

    Hi! You're a whore. Kthxbye!

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    • secrettellings

      hahaha.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    Thank god for Aids, It cuts losers like you lifespans in half

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    • eternity123

      when it cuts her lifespan in half ok but when she sleeps with her bf and he dies is it still a great thing

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  • Don't be a slut

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  • Beasty-man

    reflected in what you seek when you cheating on him

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  • Doggie_Helen

    It's normal to want lots of guys. Just make sure he doesn't find out andd don't fuck his friends.... ps it's a good way to experiment.

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    • Beasty-man

      you often fuck every friend of your Bf or husband ?

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  • do have sex with your bf do u have it with the guys u cheat with if u do then eventualy when u find a guy u like the sex with and dont want to cheat then their the guy for u

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  • End it. Staying with him while fucking other guys is just being a huge bitch. If i was him you wouldnt of seen me again after the first time and the guy you did it with would be in hospital or something things like this just get me so pissed.

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  • y not jus do wat guys do, dont date them jus hit and quit, girls do it too

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  • LiamHale

    Break up with the dude. He doesn't deserve you to treat him like that. If you want other guys, do whatever, but be single.

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  • NotEverEnuf

    No it's not normal. It's either sex addiction or can have something to do with you.....like fear of making a commentment. Or for the attention as someone else said.

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  • A_Different_Path

    Yea break up dont hurt him

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  • Just don't be in a relationship if your planning to sleep around, duh. Don't hurt people who don't deserve it because you need to have sex with many guys.

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  • soccer2

    Y so u have a bf then? U obviously want to sleep around so dump him and do wat u want

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  • boitoy5

    DO it again i won't tell him:)

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    • boitoy5

      haha just kiding if your really serious about him dont doo it

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  • Sentin3l

    Sex addiction.

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  • Dawn

    Ur gross

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  • GreenxBlack

    Not to be mean, thats kinda slutty, maybe your not ready for the commitment yet? Don't cheat on them, when your "bored" move on, cheating is a horribly hurtful thing :(

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  • tadpole2froggy

    if you really like him you wouldnt do what your doing. Agree with DearLoveiHateYou

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  • koifish

    Because you're a whoreeee

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