Is it normal to want husband to help pick other male

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my husband and i have had mfm fantasy for years. we now want to make reality. he wants to watch first,then join in,but not having sex with other male. it makes me so hot. we've been going out,to try to meet other guys. the only problem i have is he expects me to do all the hooking up by myself. i would rather start flirting, then my husband be the one that suggests to other male. since i'm submissive and have never done this i need him to set it up once i find someone that turns me on. is it normal to feel this way?

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  • 4everblue1963
    12 years ago

    Seems that there are an awful lot of people out there with this fantasy that makes it more normal than you would think.
    Personally I would recommend you go to a singles club.You can make out that your husband is just a male friend and then hit the dance floor to attract some men.As the drinks start to flow and you hit it off with someone, invite them back to your table where your husband is and then start talking and drinking and take it from there.My wife and I have been doing it like this for years.She still has not gone on to have sex with anyone yet,but I dont think its something that happens too quickly,but thats half the thrill, the build up , the chase the watching, its all part of the erotic fantasy.We have mind blowing sex just talking about the evening and all the attention she gets.Just watching her getting up close to guys on the dance floor is enough to give me a hard on.

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  • 54chimes
    13 years ago

    Great story!!! I wish my wife thought and felt the way you do. I've had the same fantasy about my wife for years. I finally tried to bring up the subject this past summer. She said she only wants me.
    Honestly, I would have no clue how to find the other guy. I think perhaps a friend, someone you both like. Then your husband could be more helpful getting everything and everyone together. Hope it's the thrill of a life time for you.

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  • TylerDurden91
    13 years ago

    FIRST!

    I don't think that swinging is normal, but for those I know who do it, this seems normal. It seems to usually be the guy who talks to the other guy and asks him if he wants to bone his wife with him lol.

    Just curious, but you don't feel guilty at all? Even if your husband consents... I don't know, just not my thing I guess. Would your husband want another woman? And would you do that? Watch him have sex with another?

    For me, I could only have a threesome if it was meaningless and with friends. I would see red if another dude was with my girl, and I'd feel wrong doing it with another girl.

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