Is it normal to want from my ex to forgive me?

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I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and I still love him. One night I was drunk after a party and I fall asleep in same bed with my best male friend. In the morning when my boyfriend got home and he saw us, he toght we had sex. He broke up with me for no reason. I didn't cheated on him, my greatest sin is that I fell asleep that night. I regret that I can't prove I am telling the truth.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    No offense but i'd dump you to. I'd have no way of knowing if your lying or not, and it would always be in the back of my mind, so the lack of trust would have made the realtionship fail anyways.

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  • pixiecutlover
    7 years ago

    Just another case of alcohol ruining lives. Why on earth do people insist on doping themselves with some chemical all the time.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    He did not leave you for no reason. He left because you fell asleep drunk with your best mate. So yes pretty understandable. I do not see how you can not see the reason for breaking up with you. Regardless of what you did or did not do it looks like you did. So yes its your fault for making a stupid decision. Besides you were drunk! How do you know if you did anything or not? A lot of people do not realize what they do when they are drunk. So you could be lying to yourself right now. You are really dumb if you do not understand the position you put yourself and your boyfriend in and why he left.

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  • milkymum
    12 years ago

    Typical guy thing im afriad, if they see a girl naked in bed with a guy they straight away think you had sex, you shouldnt have appoligised and tell him that nothing had happened, but sounds like he gets very jelouse over nothing

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    • Die.
      12 years ago

      Where did it say they were naked? I would understand him wanting to break up with her if she was naked with another guy... I mean, come on! I'm female, and I would certainly dump my boyfriend if I found him naked in bed with another girl... But I was under the impression that she was fully-clothed, but just crashed with her friend in bed? Please, correct me if I'm wrong.

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      • nightwishsweety
        12 years ago

        You're right :) Thanks for paying attention on what I wrote :)

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    • DannyKanes
      12 years ago

      What? If a guy sees a girl naked in bed with another man, how can he not assume they had sex? Even if they hadn't, it would be very hard not to believe them. If my gf found me in bed with a naked girl, she'd probably dump me straight away :/

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      • TerryVie
        12 years ago

        exactly this.
        we are in a open relationship, so it's all fine, but if my girl sleeps at another friends place or i wake up for work to find another girl in her room, i automatically assume something "happened", even if nothing did and it was just a normal sleep-over for lack of public transportation during night.
        It's human nature, and very hard to explain such situations, even if one is innocent. I feel sorry for OP though, so many people do things that are wrong and get away with it, she did not and gets punished.
        All the best of Karma to you for the future, OP.

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        • 1000yrVampireKing
          11 years ago

          Yes and its not appropriate to have a bf and to sleep in your best friend(male) bed for the night. How does he know that? She has no evidence of not doing it either. She should not have been so stupid to begin with. Its understandable her boyfriend would be upset. Even if she did do something she would react the same way and lie about it. So what do you really expect him to do in such a situation? Op also does not seem to understand why he is mad. So she probably does not understand the rules of a relationship. Certien things you do not do!

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        • nightwishsweety
          12 years ago

          Thank you :)

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      • nightwishsweety
        12 years ago

        Hey, I've never said I was naked in bed! nor did my friend. We were just asleep. That's all..

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      • milkymum
        12 years ago

        why think that, just cos a girl sleeps naked with a guy doent mean shes let him have sex, same as if a girl has male friends doesnt mean they are having sex. As i said before if your girlfriend would do that rhen there is a big lack of trust there!!

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      • milkymum
        12 years ago

        Thats what I mean, all guys think with there cocks and just cos a girl sleeps with a guy and there naked doesnt mean they had sex, this guy sounds like if he thinks that he doesnt trust her at all cos trust is a big thing in any relationship and speeks volumes, maybe she shoudlnt be with him and as for your gf to think that then maybe she doesnt trust you!!! I have been in bed with many a guy but also been in bed with guys and not had sex!!

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        • DannyKanes
          12 years ago

          Yes, but have you been naked in bed with guys whilst with a partner? I think alot of people in relationships would be very upset if their partner were sleeping naked in beds with other people :/

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          • milkymum
            12 years ago

            yes I have been naked in bed when ive been with any of my partners, some where my ex partners friends and none of them upset cos they had trust in me to say if i had fucked any of them or not. as I said before sounds like this guy and your girlfriend have trust issues!!!

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            • DannyKanes
              12 years ago

              And they didn't care? Sorry, but I find that bizarre. I would be hell upset if my gf slept naked in bed with other guys and she would be upset if I slept in bed naked with other girls. Trust issues or not, I think a lot of people in relationships would break up with their partner too.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    He should give you another chance. Sounds like he's very scared of getting his heart broken.... Don't blame him :/

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    I wouldnt be happy if i were your boyfriend either. But, he should at least give you the benefit of the doubt and give you another chance.

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal you want to.

    But by you apologizing, you really didn't do anything wrong. You aren't lieing to him. By apologizing you are pretty much would be lieing in a sense.

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