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I'm not in this situation, but I am curious to ask now. If someone's partner expresses that they never want to have sex again, then is it normal for that person to want divorce?
For comments: Is it normal to want divorce if the partner doesn't want to have it even close to as much as the person wants it?
Wow. If you really think the whole point of getting married is so you can fuck whenever you want, then I doubt that your relationship is built on a very solid foundation. Sex is of course, an important part of any marriage, but it should not even be in the top ten reasons for being together.
Depends on each persons view towards sex. If the partner doesnt care for sex much then they probably wont mind. If they care about sex a lot then they will probably divorce the other quickly.
Yes, it is very normal if some time has passed since that declaration and he has failed to mend the relationship through the usual means. Being married to someone who holds out from you is a painful, frustrating and humiliating experience.
It is normal. I'm going through it now. She hasn't wanted to have sex for two years now and even the previous four or five were not sex fests either. The reasons are many, pain down there, back, legs and a variety of other body parts hurting. The kids are up. I'm too tired. I'm watching my show, etc etc etc... Some might think, oh maybe she's getting it somewhere else. I can assure you that is not the case. It would be a lot easier if it was. I would almost welcome it. I think lack of affection was probably a part of me starting to have gay fantasies, in the last couple of months. I still haven't acted on them, but they have gotten so intense that I feel its only a matter of time. I'm at the point now where if she stuck her pussy onto my dick, I don't know if I would get hard any more. I certainly don't think I could cum. I only seem to be able to get hard & cum, when I see a gay porn video with a hard cock being sucked, or a guy taking it up the ass. I guess once I act on these fantasies, I will probably be gay, since I don't have straight sex any more. A divorce would be out of the question, since our finances took a major hit with the recession and not being able to keep up with the bills as it is, but I believe I wouldn't be out of line to ask for one if this was not the case.
Somehow I can't imagine myself in this situation.
Why would my wife suddenly refuse to have sex with me? There would have to be some underlying reasons for it, not necessarily of sexual nature. These reasons would have to be discussed and possibly solved.
If it wasn't sudden: Why in the hell would I have married a person, who is sexually incompatible with me?
It's normal to have sexual needs and want to have them met by your partner and I think it would a justifiable break up if you're dating, but for a marriage i think that's a little extreme and petty.
It is. But it's also my responsible to tell the guy that I'm dating how important sex is to me and make sure that we are on the same page regarding sexual activities.