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My wife is 40+ and has no interest in sex, she will not do blow job, and will not ask for sex, I am really thinking serious about having an affair but will not leave my wife is this normal?
There's a difference between having no interest in sex and not wanting to perform a certain sex act. Or asking for sex, for that matter. Perhaps she feels it's your role to initiate sex. Have you talked to her about this?
yes ofc. she shouldnt be forced into sex if she dont want, but you shouldnt be forced into a perma state of blue balls.
i would divorce to be honest, else i would 110% cheat and i dont like the idea, but its completely understandable to this case.
There are no kids, even men like intimacy and like a woman to want him, it is not one or the others to initiate but when it feels like ground hog day there is no fun did we talk yes yes yes yes yes and yes but she does not change, I asked her to speak to a Dr but she says she can't. I love her but I feel there is a hole which I cannot patch up and I am desperate to be with a woman who can give as well as take
#2 reason for divorce right there
It is more wrong to cheat then to 'end it' - the kids will force you to stay in touch anyway, so......... what have you got to loose
If you have children, please be considerant of the effect an affair is going to have on them.