Is it normal to want a woman "in back" or "on top" in the bed room

i am a straight male i have no fantasies about men whatsoever i still question why women are attracted to us but ok well any way i really want a woman to wear a strap on and fuck the hell outta me like im the girl notthat im into cross dressing i guess it has something to do with the fact that i dont have sex often so psychologically i would feel like she would really have to want me for her to do that ladies i wanna hear from you and if you are interested maybe you could leave an email address so we can talk