Is it normal to want a whiney guy like this?

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Kinda long sorry.. My best friend since childhood has beeen dating this guy (lets call him david) for 4 months. He literally whines and pouts, like a toddler, about every little thing that doesnt go his way. He's 21 by the way. For instance she was on facebook talking to her friend (another female) and he throws a tantrum and nearly cried because he thought they we're talking about him. Another time we we're drinking a couple beers with some of her friends and she decides to smoke one cigarette, because she likes one every now and then. Apparently he doesnt like cigarettes so he starts downing vodka, to the point she had to hold his weenis for him so he didnt pee himself.. Over a cigarette. Embarassing all of us. He's also overly jelous, treats her like crap and incredibly clingy to her. And expects her to console him and treat him like gold when people call him a bitch because of his behavior.. Which happens all the time. This is only a couple examples of what i've seen of this crap. All her friends tell her he's shit and to leave him. Shes a wonderful girl and she deserves a real man. is it normal to want someone like this?? Any advice on how to get her to come to her senses?

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  • DavidD
    12 years ago

    This dude's giving us Davids a bad name!

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    maybe she has a "mommy" complex and she wants a babu she can take car of.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe she likes him that way? To me, this sounds like someone who'd be ready to hurt her badly/ kill if she were to leave him. Maybe she is scared of leaving him because she knows what he's going to do to her. Or she is blinded and doesn't realise there are better people out there who would not do this to her.

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  • strwbry
    11 years ago

    He sounds very passive agressive....google the defination of that and I'll bet the guy meets all the criteria for that. Too bad she already ended up with a guy like that... this could last one day or for the next fifty years but it won't be an equal relationship for her. He's going to end up holding her back in life and she'll spend all her precious time cleaning up after his messes and holding his weenie in stead of using her time more wisely like going to school , making good grades, getting that career, not to mention that she is going to be left feeling emotionally exaused on a daily basis and she will be aging faster than she would of because of the emotional stress that this guy will cause her. She will never know how wonderful and sexy a normal relationship can feel like as long as she stays with a whiney, jealous boy who needs someone to hold his weenie while he takes a pee and then shake it for him after he is done.

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  • 4theloveofdez
    12 years ago

    He's probably controlling and manipulative. I'd kick his ass to the curb

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  • Jen118584
    12 years ago

    Ugh he sounds...gross. Keep telling her that you think he sucks. That will keep the idea in her head and she'll eventually realize he sucks too.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    She's only going out with him 4 months - I doubt it will last much longer! How's about recording him and playing it back to her at a later date, so she can see quite clearly how his behaviour is seen by others!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Clingyness like that makes some people feel special and needed. She probably gets an ego boost out of it. It get's old though. When she's over it, she'll leave him.

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