Is it normal to want a sex doll if your wife rarely wants sex?

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Im a 34 year old married man with a beautiful family. My wife and I both work and we share the responsibilities of raising our kids. Despite going to work and getting the kids to bed, I still have sexual desire and want to just have some good sex from time to time. The only problem is that my wife rarely wants sex, and when she does, we spoon so she can fall asleep which leaves me wanting. I've talked to her about it but she just yells me that she is tired which I completely understand. I don't want to give her a hard time about it.

I am considering purchasing a sex doll to help me get the satisfaction I desire. I guess im looking to avoid making my wife angry by asking her... in other words im afraid to ask her if she is ok with me buying one. Id like to get a woman's perspective on this.

Men and woman are very different when it comes to sex. I know that sex between two people gets boring after a while and I have no expectations. My wife and I have been married for four years and she is the love of my life, not a means for my sexual outlet. Is it wrong for me to want a sex doll to get the sexual satisfaction I want?

Thanks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    How would you possibly hide something like that from your wife?
    If’s she is 34 and out of gas in the sex department something else is up bro.

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    • Nickvey
      6 years ago

      At that age women get very interested in other women for sex. they know in five or six years menopause starts and the tuna factory arrives in town. so its a now or never thing and its not just one that thinks this way its all of them this is the age where 3-4 of them form these bizarre sex unions with one butch and 3 married women in tow.

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    • jojobajuju
      6 years ago

      I had no intentions of hiding it, but you are right. 34 is too young to be "out of gas" but there isn't much I can think of that is the cause. I love to fuck and eat her pussy. She doesnt have time to cheat to be honest. Im always open to trying new things but she frowns at even watching porn together... if she would be fine with me screwing another woman, why would she have an issue with a sex doll boxed up in my closet? At least she wouldn't have to worry about me coming home with an std or news that I knocked someone up... shes probably just feeling burnt out. Kids plus work can take it out of her. I understand.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Maybe hormonal. Can you talk to her doctor about blood tests? She may also be iron deficient which is common for women and can cause moodiness and listlessness.

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        • jojobajuju
          6 years ago

          Hmmm... hadn't considered that.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    It's absolutely normal to want a SEX DOLL, no matter what the reason. Whether it's a $30 inflatable SEX DOLL, or a $10,000 silicone SEX DOLL. Just get a SEX DOLL, lick it, sniff it, love it, suck it, fuck it, get yourself a SEX DOLL today.

    Got SEX DOLLS?

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    • e51pegasi
      6 years ago

      You don't import or wholesale a varied selection of sex dolls by any chance?

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      • Dustyair
        6 years ago

        No sorry I don't. lol

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Just do what every other (frisky) husband does, get used to
    wanking again.

    Encrypted flash drives come in very handy.

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    • CozmoWank
      6 years ago

      I've never understood the blow up doll thing. I imagine it would be like fucking an inflatable mattress. Not a real turn on.

      Just use your hand.

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      • jojobajuju
        6 years ago

        Silicon sex doll and blow up doll are too extremely different sex toys. My hand doesn't do it for me anymore

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        • CozmoWank
          6 years ago

          Silicon or blow up it just seems like a tragic extreme. Maybe you might benefit more from therapy. I don't mean that as a put down. Just as a suggestion.

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          • jojobajuju
            6 years ago

            Yea you are right. I always thought sleeping with another woman or picking up a prostitute was a tragic extreme... not buying a sex doll. But therapy would actually be more helpful to me and my marriage.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    What not bring in a nice woman for sex, why a doll?

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    • jojobajuju
      6 years ago

      I don't want to cheat. Also woman can cause trouble where a sex doll can't get pregnant or plan to break up an otherwise happy home. Why does everyone seem to jump to cheating as if that is better than a sex doll?

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        So get permission first.

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  • Ummitsme
    6 years ago

    You could divorce and then seek out a woman that is on your same wavelength. Or just jack off to porn like many miserable married men. Or buy a blow up doll, I'd never do it but the regular poster here dustyair can't shut up about them. I suppose they can bounce back like a waterbed if you get the psi right.

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    • jojobajuju
      6 years ago

      Nope. Other than my wife rarely wanting sex, she is my best friend, she's beautiful and very understanding. Finding another woman is often a mistake. The grass is always greener on the other side until you realize that it's still just grass... I'm happy I didn't act like an ass and just do something behind her back. Talking to her about it really worked out better than being a douche. Blow up sex dolls are seriously a thing of the past... I went here reallovesexdolls.com

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      • Dustyair
        6 years ago

        Blow up dolls are actually still quite popular, dumb ass. Go read some of the various doll forums out there and try really hard to learn something about sex dolls before shooting off your fat ass mouth. You probably gained several hundred pounds over the years and that's why your wife won't get in bed with you anymore.

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        • Checkmate_King
          6 years ago

          I bought a Rosie O'Donnell sex doll -- passed out before I got the first leg inflated.

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          • jojobajuju
            6 years ago

            Ha!

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        • jojobajuju
          6 years ago

          Lol. You are absolutely right. I'm sorry.

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  • amg1028
    6 years ago

    talk to her about it. it would be much worse, if she happens to stumble upon the sex doll. Let her know your desires and how you understand that shes tired, present the idea to her. Maybe you should just get a flesh light, easier to hide, if you really dont want to talk to her.

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    • jojobajuju
      6 years ago

      Yep well I brought it up and made light of it, even showed her the doll website. She helped me design one and order it. I can't wait to try it out! I didn't expect her to have fun with this. Makes me want her so much more. Happy ending here.

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  • Checkmate_King
    6 years ago

    Get a ten dollar tenga cup™ (google) Absolutely a top notch blowjob much cheaper than some vinyl doll at big expense. Several varieties. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bV5oHmsO57Q

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    6 years ago

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, however I'm guessing she isn't going to be too happy with it. But like you said, a sex doll isn't cheating so go for it.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    sex is just a chore to her something else she has to clean , no reason you cant have sex with a willing woman . find one at work . i did it all the time with married women that complained there diabetic husbands penis was broken , or the cops wife that said his drugs to combat stress took away his manhood, or the military wife whose husband was deployed to neither regions, the woman that tells everybody at work her husband is sterile and they both want another child or and i like this one the best , the woman that said her husband was just too tired all the time. the best part about sex at work is you get paid to fuck. its the most satisfying release of all. hell at one point on my tax return i was thinking of putting down stud on the occupation. Now i dont know what your wife does at work or with who. but keeping it fresh down there for work has its payoffs. and if it hasn't had a deposit in a week its going to be pretty fresh.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Um...no

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      • Nickvey
        6 years ago

        fine , more pussy for me. just dont act shocked when you hear your penis doesnt work anymore. there is already somebody on here saying you need permission to buy a sex toy. oh really ? who from? God? you have been cut off from a sex life and i was trying to help you. you are settling on a toy when you can have the real thing. this is not your fault. this was all your wifes doing when she started using sex as tool to change you when all it really did was change her. Or she really is too tired to fuck from all the stud action at work. Uh , No. not my wife just everyone else's im here to tell you if i wanted it i got it. every last one. .

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        • jojobajuju
          6 years ago

          I'm sure you are a real stud. Honestly if my wife was fucking someone at work everything would make sense. I'm just not the sort of guy that jumps to that conclusion but believe me, i've known plenty of guys like you. I don't hate, it's just not my style. If you fucked my wife i'd consider you doing me a favor. Yes i'd probably beat you within an inch of your life but I blame her more than I blame you. Get what you can get bro. When I was in college all I did was fuck as much as I could but now that I have kids, I don't see things the same way anymore. I can tell that you don't have kids and have not raised any babies... it changes you man... at least it should. Honestly i'm so tired of sex being turned into this colossal chore that i'm starting to just lose my libido. Like you said... the dick is starting to shrivel up so if she is cheating on me that would probably be more of a good thing than a bad thing. Feeling pretty stuck...

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    • Zandonus
      6 years ago

      Big if true.

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