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Is it normal to want a no-sex relationship with a guy even though you aren't a virgin? I don't see what the big deal is,but all of my guy friends think its stupid to expect that. They say all this while I kick their ass at halo. Its like they're being sexist against themselves.
It depends how platonic you mean. If there's not even any kissing or affection, then what you have is just a friend. If it's affectionate but sexless, then that's different. I've been in a relationship like that (her religion didn't approve of sex before marriage). In actuality, it was fine but there were some things that were difficult to get my head around. One of them was that, unless I married her, it was always going to be some other guy doing things to her that I never would. It's kind of hard to accept that when she's your girlfriend. The other difficulty was that we were very affectionate and it occasionally simmered over. I had to back away because I knew how badly she'd feel if she'd have slept with me. It's not easy for a guy to walk away from sex with someone he loves. It didn't break us up, though. We just drifted when she went back to her own country.