Is it normal to want a mother figure?

My boss a I have become really close over the years I've worked for her. She treats me like her own daughter and she's told me she loved me before when I was going through a really hard time. She always wants me to confide in her when I go through difficult things. I wrote her a thank you letter and I want to give to her. I feel she could be like a second mother to me. What's the definition of a mother figure? I have a mother but is that term only used for people who don't have mother's? I need a definition to use that shows a mother like relationship, would a "mother figure" term work since I have a mother?

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Based on 21 votes (17 yes)
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  • Ellenna

    Aren't you the same person who was on here a short while ago about "boss appreciation days" and having a gift for your boss but she kept putting off socialising with you?

    IF so, you seem obsessed - get some therapy for goodness sake and leave your boss alone. You're there to work, not find a mother figure.

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    • dumpling

      ?. I believe you are crazy and have the wrong person. You are weird. I believe you are obsessed with this website. You don't seem to be an encouraging person which is what this site is for anyway when receiving comments for people's problems. I think YOU need therapy.

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      • Ellenna

        I did say "IF" you are that person and should've added an apology in case I was wrong, but that doesn't make me crazy or obsessed with this site.

        Good luck with your search for a mother figure

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  • Thewomanizer

    Mother figure is an older woman who is regarded as a source of nuture and support. Its normal to have a "motherly" bond with more than one person even if u do have a biological mother :)

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  • righteous

    quit ur job and be a wife &mother. you'll be happier.

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