Is it normal to want a man to abuse me?

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i'm gay and have been in a few relationships with men that were abusive. most people would not want that i'm sure, but i love being hit or slapped by a man, especially if it is not pretend. i get very turned on by this. in fact i would not be very interested in a man that wasn't abusive towards me. do you think it's normal for me to love men that are physically abusive and want to dominate and hurt me?

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Based on 83 votes (27 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    You're going to end up really hurt or killed by someone abusive. Why do you feel you deserve punishment?

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    • truebuttsniffer
      8 years ago

      i have already been stabbed once and ended up in the hospital. but yet i still seek men that want to be abusive to me. to me a man isn't a man unless he has total control over me and makes me fear him. i just want to please a man. and if it means him beating me up then it's ok.

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        People who crave control over others do so because they are weak and try to deny their insecurities.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        It sounds like you have a lot of self hate and feel that you deserve to be punished. There are plenty of ways to play this sort of sex game, but when you live it for real, it is not healthy or normal.
        You should probably get some therapy and try to figure out why you think you deserve to be treated this way.

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        • Eat.My.Fuck
          7 years ago

          I thought they deleted your account. There was a post a while back claiming that a number of regulars got the axe. Must have been a fake.

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  • Rol
    7 years ago

    You are sick and need mental help!

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  • Alice97
    8 years ago

    It's not uncommon for a woman who has been abused to only feel loved when someone abuses her. But it isn't healthy.

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    • Eric118
      8 years ago

      You the real Alice? Is this your ne account? I still <3 you babe...

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      • Alice97
        8 years ago

        I'm not sure who you're talking about, sorry. I'm relatively new to the IIN site.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
        8 years ago

        hooves up

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    • ArchKnight99
      7 years ago

      I don't believe that OP is a woman. He said that he is gay and in the IIN he said a man. If it was a woman and she was gay it would be a woman.

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  • Thorolf
    8 years ago

    It's not normal, you need help.

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    • truebuttsniffer
      8 years ago

      i know i need help but i can't help myself. maybe i am sick in the head. but i just believe that i'm nothing. and that it is a man's right to beat me.

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      • Thorolf
        8 years ago

        No man has the right to beat you whenever he pleases. I'm not a therapist or anything, so I don't know for sure how to solve that problem. The only thing I can really think of is to ask any loved ones you have to list your good qualities and maybe do small favors for others every now and then. Perhaps then you may not feel like nothing anymore because you'll have seen some value in yourself. And you're a sentient life form, so unless you've committed some awful crime or injustice you certainly shouldn't be beaten.

        And even if you enjoy it so much you don't want it to end, remember that bring abused isn't good for your health. If you want to have an able body for a long time keep that in mind. But if you don't care about health, go on as you were because I have no business telling you how to run your life of course.

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  • Poes
    8 years ago

    Id like to pull your balls whilst i ram my dick deep into your throat!

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