Is it normal to want a girl to have an obsessive love for me?

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Alright. This is my first post. So, is it normal to want a girl to have an obsessive love for you? Now..don't get me wrong..i I don't mean that kinda obsession where they ask about your every move, or are ready to murder someone for you.. I meant that happy kind of obsession where if they see you they'll be really happy, or they always think about you, and stuff like that.. Well here's an example: if you've ever seen Sonic The Hedgehog (you probably have) its like the obsession where that other hedgehog (Amy Rose) is always loving him and telling him costantly. I know this sounds really immature, but please..help me out on this one... Also, this might be because I've never had a girlfriend before.. Normally you'd think, "wow that guy must be ugly then", but I'm really not! I'm just shy that's all. But yeah.. Is It Normal?

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    Totally normal. I think a lot of people wants that kind of girlfriend, someone who constantly reminds you that you're loved.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    To be honest, it's not that cute if it's an ugly girl (yes, I understand physical appearance is what people also desire, you can thumb me down for not going by the rules that you yourself don't run by).
    I have had this happen twice, one with an little over average girl, and one ugly. The ugly one was just annoying.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      LOL I have had guy friends that have been driven mad by said ugly girls. Personally, I've had ugly guys and girls take fancy to me and it's fucking annoying.

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    • WeirdThoughts
      11 years ago

      Lol, yes, its true that I don't want an ugly girl following me around.. I mean who would? I don't want to sound like a douche or anything but yea.. A hot girl would be awesome

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  • tom132
    11 years ago

    Yes its normal. I wish the same thing. Ive been in a couple of bad relationships wher the other person doesnt show much affection & i hav to say it sucks.

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    • WeirdThoughts
      11 years ago

      That's why I'm waiting for a girl I know I'll truly like. I've never been in a relationship.

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal. I feel as if I'm in your shoes. :(

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    • WeirdThoughts
      11 years ago

      :D

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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda
    11 years ago

    Are you the person who posted the "wanting to be like a character", and wanted to be like sonic the hedgehog then as well?
    Also, I have had this, and girls being really clingy is often off-putting I find...

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  • Chaosmuffin
    11 years ago

    It's normal, I think a lot of people would want THAT

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago

    Haha, Sonic the Hedgehog :)

    Anyway I would say it's normal. When I like a guy I feel that way, like I miss him when I don't see him and write him on Facebook just to say hi, but sometimes I'm afraid I'm being annoying. But it's good to know there are guys who like nice girls :)

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  • azruka
    11 years ago

    If that ain't normal we're both weirdos ^__^ along with 90% of the decent males of the world

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  • ants91shearer
    10 years ago

    is it normal , no

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  • BigScaryRooster
    11 years ago

    I'm that obsessive dude toward a girl I like currently.

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  • neverletmego
    11 years ago

    I want a boyfriend like that.... :(

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  • Lynxikat
    11 years ago

    It sounds cute and fun at first, but if you constantly had to live like that, it would be annoying real effing fast.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    you twisted bastard.

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  • mikafor
    11 years ago

    Who doesn't want a supportive and loyal significant other?

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