Is it normal to want a girl but feel that you might not love her?

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i Know this girl and she is really cute and funny, sweet too. i mess with her a lot in class and i feel she doesn't stop me b/c she likes it. i asked her out but were still talking about how the relationship is going to go and be. inside though i feel that im not going to love her. i want to love her but, its hard b/c i just broke up with my 7 month girlfriend 4 days before. i'm okay and i want to start a new relationship but i think it might be hard for my heart to accept the new girl in. is this normal?

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  • x...x
    11 years ago

    well i think ur not ready cuz in the running u know ur going to brake her heart

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  • littlebarbie
    11 years ago

    Take a time. I just think you are used in get someone. Mabe you are needy now, and are mixing things. Go out, party, but would be good not to start a new relationship now. Is early for that.

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    Just take your time, what will be will be

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    It's probably healthier if you learn to love her over time, rather than just instantly love her.

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  • Magicer
    14 years ago

    i suggest you take some time with yourself to settle things and get over your ex. otherwise you could be breaking the little girl's heart

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    • Hug_Life
      11 years ago

      Yep get to be comfortable with yourself first dont rush into it and you will learn to love her if its meant to be. Mine is a 6.5 year relationship and still going strong!

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