Is it normal to want a boyfriend but not want to have sex?

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I've never had a boyfriend before but I really want to find someone who I really like. However, the idea of sex seems dirty and shameful to me... On the one hand, I think it's beautiful and natural and why does it have to be taboo in our society? And I do desire sex, but on the other hand, I hate the way people act about sex and people's attitudes towards it, and I have kind of learnt from the media that it's a dirty, naughty, embarrassing act that must be kept secret. So I always tell everyone that I don't want to have sex because of the way we act an talk about it, but I still want a boyfriend. And honestly, all I want is someone cute to cuddle and kiss, and love, not necessarily sex. The sex aspect is unimportnt to me. I just find it embarrassing. So, is it normal to feel this way about sex?

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Based on 25 votes (19 yes)
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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    I think I found my match! :D Who are you Ms. Mystery User?!?!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      That's a secret ;)

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        aw :c

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  • daydreamer394
    8 years ago

    Oh my goodness, I'm exactly the same. How will I ever find someone?

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    • ThingOne
      8 years ago

      Stick your thumb up your ass and suck on a butt plug. Then, maybe you will figure it out.

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      • daydreamer394
        8 years ago

        If only you could download a better sense of humour.

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        • ThingOne
          8 years ago

          Hahaha. Humour, imagine that.

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  • Lariii
    8 years ago

    If you've never had a boyfriend before, I would say it's normal not to focus on sex. But really, there's nothing shameful about sex, and when you find that right person you have every right to have sex or not have sex with them.

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  • Chilllbanana
    8 years ago

    Then choose a guy who can adjust like i never had a gf but if i ever did i would respect her decisions of not having sex and all kissing is just the right thing for me cuz it stops the time i feel sex feels dirty and shameful if we do it with someone we love raw and not intended for sex the first time we see then Xoxo.

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