Is it normal to want a boy friend but not the drama

So I think I should move on. There's this guy who at first I really thought that he liked me, I was even working up the courage to ask him out!! He seemed perfect, we went to girl ask guy winter formal together, spent like every waking moment for weeks either hanging out and texting eachother. He even came over and hung out with me after I had surgery and was totally a forgetful different person! I think that I must have said something that I can't remember, because ever since I've gotten better and went back to school he just seems off, idk what to think or do! I really really liked him, but now idk. With whatever I said, most guys just need to grow up! Any advise on what I should do?? Rite now I'm just kinda seeing where things go w/o purposely running into him at school or texting or anything. I'm a higher and usually he gives me nice hugs when I hug him, but today I saw him and said hey, gave him a hug and was just like hi and walked away!! What should I do??

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  • Frostire

    I would just talk to him. If he refuses to talk to you, then he's not worth it. If he says he's not interested anymore, then he's not worth it. If he wants to spend time with you again, then be cautious and don't let it hurt you if he acts abnormally.

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  • melbell

    I tried to talk to him but he's just being annoying. He texted me today inviting me to the movies, but I was already at another theatre with some other friends. So I asked him if he wanted to catch a movie next weekend and he said no thanks and then I asked if he wanted to hang out later and he said "no thanks I'm good"?!?! Idk what that means, like idk what's wrong, we use to hang out and talk almost everyday!! And now he's acting like a jerk! And no, I seriously have no idea what I said if anything, I can't remember like a whole week cuz of surgery so I could have said something but I really don't know. I really don't need this drama :(

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  • ccjigsaw

    I would talk to him. Or text him, which evers easier. Nothings going to get better if you don't suck it up and talk ot the guy. Mayeb you did say something, maybe you didn't. I have an inkling that you remmeber what you might have said, but that's none of my business. I think if it matters enough to you, you should talk to him and clear it up

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  • melbell

    Ok, I was upset when I wrote this, its just that there are alot of guys who are really mean to me, and this guy just made me upset, cuz it was like one of the first times I thought a guy actually liked me! I almost feel used. I feel like I don't know what, he has so many friends who are girls, it doesn't bug me that he has girl friends, it bugs me that now that I'm looking at the big picture, idk what to think, I thought that we were actually going to start going out!! I'm honestly not the most popular girl at school. I know lots of people, but most of my good friends are graduating this year. I'm sorry, I'm using this to vent and to refraise that, some guys need to grow up, meaning a lot of guys at my school are really immature, and need to be nicer and alot of them, need to stop doing drugs.

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  • Well, if I was that guy and you said "most men need to grow up" that would be the last you ever heard of me. That one line actually makes me feel like saying "Serves you right".

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  • melbell

    I ment hugger, my iPod changed it, I give all my friends hugs :) and idk wats going through his head rite now, cuz today as I was at a competition, that he knew about, was the time he decided that we should text, idk y, he knew that today was the one day I couldn't talk, and yet, today was the one day he wanted to :P

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  • Shackleford96

    "I'm a higher..." Who says a phrase like this? It should have been "I greet people..." or something.

    Anyway, I think it's normal. Maybe he just lost interest. You deserve better anyway.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Well to me it sounds like you are still in high school. One thing you need to remember is that us guys mature slower than you girls. This causes an awkward period when you are much more mature! If he lost interest it is no biggie, there will be plenty of other guys. Just go about your daily life and if he comes to you, great, if not there will be other guys.

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