Is it normal to want a baby at a young age ?

I'm 17 and ever since I was 12 I wanted a baby. Call me clueless and dumb but i mean it Not as a cute toy or something to play with or even as a pet but, to love and watch grow and have a family. My family has never been threw a divorce or a tragic family death. I just want a baby. Everyday I see one my heart melts and I conclude life would be perfect with a child in it. Am I normal ?

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74% Normal
Based on 93 votes (69 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan

    just get a puppy

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    • Nice one. ^.^

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      • shuggy-chan

        thank you kindly, it just bad when they get older, and then she farts on my leg when she wants to sleep in my bed. Dumb farty dog, but i guess babies must fart too right? idk xD

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        • hahaha ok. I'll keep that in mind when I get a puppy.(Been planing on geting one since I was ten but my parents never let me get one then.)

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          • shuggy-chan

            well puppies are fun, but you have to be prepared to train them, or you'll have a bad puppy. oh noes

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            • yeah I know. I don't really know how to train one so I'll take it to petsmart and get it trained! *George lopez voice* "I got this!" C:

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Yeah, don't do it.

    When I was 17 I was RAISING a baby (my brother) and trust me, that shit is no joke. When you're trying to do your homework with a baby in your hand, 2 hours of sleep, can't remember the last time you showered or had a full meal and you don't know for certain whether or not someone is coming home to relieve you of your duties, you'll be regretting the day YOU were born. Kids are great, raising babies sucks. Besides, at this age, you'll be hard pressed to find a man that is committed enough to you to stick around and help you pay for the baby.

    It's normal, but having a baby will make your life a living hell at this age. Many young moms I know (even ones that wanted kids) constantly tell me that while they love their kids, they regret missing out on life, not being able to go to college, get that job, get that brand new sports car, date without having to worry about how the man will feel about her having a child... Be happy that you're not in their shoes. Single motherhood is a painful and lonely life and for women who want kids, it comes with the territory of rushing into parenthood.

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  • JenAus1217

    I think it's normal, but you really should wait until you're older. I'm glad that you grow up in a rather healthy family. Your future child will need a healthy family too. I think it's best for you to wait until you're fully capable of taking care of a child. When you can finally find the ideal partner of life and become financially independent, you'll know it's the perfect moment to step into another phase of life - to raise a child and give your child the best you've ever had.

    Besides, I don't mean to offend/discourage you but I gotta say that people's minds do change as time pass by. Although you've wanted a baby for years and you sound really sincere and serious, still as you grow older or maturer you may change your mind. You may have other plans or dreams in the future.

    Good luck :)

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    • DukeZ

      Agreed but your 17 and if you have a baby you are taken out of school it can ruin your life People will disown you possibly so just wait you'll know when the time is right.

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother

    For Christ's sake, you're 17! If you have a baby at 17, you will ruin your life FOREVER! No Prom, No Fun, No College, Nothing! Wait 4 or 14 years!

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  • Bandaid419

    First get a job at a daycare center. Then after you experience that and you still have this longing for a child then I'm sure you will make a great parent. But the key to that is choosing to be responsible and independent first.

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  • Unknown1994

    You're not alone I'm a boy and I've wanted a baby since I was 13 and I still want one now and I'm only 17 everytime I see a baby or a young child I sink cause of how much I want one. I just love the thought of having someone rely on me and love me to the ends of the earth. So don't worry I'm the same

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  • pufferton

    It's normal. I felt the same way, ever since I was 13. It's just female instinct. But I wouldn't act upon it at this age. Not that you said you were going to.

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  • nAt2017

    Yes, it's normal. That'll be hormones doing their work. Just be sure that you understand that it's a big responsibility, and that there are a lot of risks.

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  • Forceclone888

    I think that it is great that you would like to be a mother. However, wait until you are in a stable social and economical situation and can support your baby. I would suggest that you consider adopting first. Not only do you give an abandoned child a home, but you also don't contribute to overpopulation. Most mothers and fathers don't think about overpopulation at all, and stick their head in the sand, believing it to be a false superstition. It's a shame. Overpopulation is a real problem, without many predators to Homo Sapiens. Well, I hope this helped you make the right decision for you and your planet. Good Luck.

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  • I think its normal but you are only 17, the best advice I could give to you is to first of all get established in life like finish your studies, eventually get a job you're happy with and of course to find the right guy who will help support you and the baby.
    Raising a kid will be challenging so you're gotta be prepared.

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername

    Wait until you're in a stable relationship and job. I think the fact that you want a baby is normal, natural even, you're a woman! However, I don't think you should be wanting one at such a young age, although I can see why you'd think that.
    It is considered 'normal' to have a baby at 16>, but most of those mothers are single. Live YOUR life first, gain experiences and stories to tell that child one day. But for now, enjoy what you have and just wait for that someone to come along. A baby just seems that so much more special when it's yours and your long term lovers. Don't walk into this naive. :)

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    • KIDSrock

      im 44 i was told what you are saying now i feel like a old man with no kids

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      • ThisIsNotAUsername

        44's not old! You're only just starting your second childhood. ;)

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  • Avant-Garde

    It's normal, but please wait until you're older and financially stable.

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  • PumpkinKate

    Didn't this exact question, almost word for word, appear a few weeks ago? I could be making that up...

    Anyway. I think it's perfectly normal to have the desire. There's nothing wrong with that! As for actually having one at that age, that might be a bit more complicated, but I'm sure you realize that. As much as you want a baby, you'll probably want to give it the best life you can, which means... do it when you're ready.

    I'm 27 and I want a kid so bad it's crazy, but I want to be able to support my child comfortably and I'm not there financially yet. Also adopting as a single parent is hard :/

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  • kellstar79

    I had a child when I was 19 and I love her to bits an wouldn't change a thing but it's bloody hard and I missed out on sooooo much!! Wait, just Lon for one until your older, it's harder than you think. Maybe babysit alot

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  • karmasAbich

    So dumb

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  • Gardenia

    Don't. Seriously... Kids are cool, but...
    Goodbye to "you" time.

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  • Don't worry, when you decide to have a child at such a young age to a man not wanting to be a father, you'll get off scott-free while the man gets seen as the bad guy for not wanting to be a father to the child he didn't want.

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    • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat

      Get off scott-free?? She will get the kid AND child support money from him, unless he hits the road and leaves her, which is what I would do if some idiotic bitch tried to entrap me.

      I say have the kid, sure there is only 8 billion people on the planet as is, but think of Anarctica, we could easily fit a few billion more there.

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