Is it normal to want 2 lose my virginity 2 some1 who is also a virgin?

Is it? I mean I've had a bad experience dating someone who wasn't a virgin. A very bad one. And ever since, I've hoped that one day I could find someone whos also waiting for that special person. Is it normal to want that?

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Comments ( 22 )
  • Trollolol

    I'm a virgin, I'm waiting till I find the perfect girl, unlikely to ever happen tho I imagine the way humans are in this day and age, arrogance and stupidity leaks from the walls of every city.

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  • YOU'RE GIRL OR BOY? IT IS 100% NORMAL. I'M ALSO VIRGIN AND I THIK THAT THIS IS HOT. seriously.

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  • TieDiedSuperstar

    Yeah, too many people fuck anyways.

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  • rayst

    It doesnt have to be a virgin too, just a caring person who loves/likes you very much.

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  • Blind leading the blind

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  • deejayftw

    Same here and yes it is, in fact I refuse to lose it to someone who isn't. I had a really bad experience with a girl who wasn't a virgin in any form and it made me lose my mind. No it wasn't jealousy, it was more like I felt she wasn't in the same place I was and the thought of it disgusted me. She was perfect aside from that and that one single thing destroyed her for me thus our relationship as well. I have found a lot of people who have had similar experience so I suggest avoiding it at all costs, in case you're like that too.

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  • Dreamcatcher104

    I soooo agree. I honestly dont think ill ever find someone ill be happy with because people my age are tf

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  • itssofluffy12

    I do too because I wouldn't want my guy to fuck a girl and then do me and be like "Wow she sucks in bed"

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  • Dreamboat

    I disrespect girls that have slept with a lot of guys or maybe just even 2 guys because they couldn't wait until marriage. Idk but thats just me and I tend to call them types of girls "hoes"

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  • yes it normal i happened with me

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  • iin2lol

    Im virgin (a)

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  • This is very normal. I am the same I'm looking for a special person not just anybody. I think it's better that way because you nor him really know what to do so it's kind of easy for the both of you in my opinion.

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  • andrelo_06

    Get married first

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  • andrelo_06

    Gosh what is wrong with Americans... You'all need to get married first

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  • lufniap

    i got the same problem with you. i was pretty depressing when i found my ex slept with many kind of whores. i almost end my life with him. i wish i could find someone who is still virgin to tie the knot

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  • :<TayTay>:

    I did.. I'm in love with him and he's inlove with me. :) but don't ask to do it just let it happen when it happens. Trust me. But make sure your positive he's the right one. Nothing like remembering losing your virginity to some guy who F'd up your life :/

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  • ms.B_

    I think it is pefectly normal! In high school, I always thought I wanted to lose it to someone experienced...and then changed my mind. My fiance and I were virgins, i was 19, he was 20, and we lost it to each other. It was fun figuring it all out together...and our sex life is freekin' amazing now :)

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  • britinkiwiland

    Normal. I feel the same :)

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  • Logicalchristian

    I'm waiting till marriage and it is perfectly normal

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  • vnorthrup21

    I am a virgin too and I'm waiting! You can see how many people our age who have had sex and think that you want to jump on that bandwagon lol but I think it shows more confidence to be a virgin and set yourself apart from others.

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  • reilyn

    It's normal. It's easier to have a first time with someone else who is as well. If you're a virgin with someone with a lot of experience it could make you really nervous. You'd worry that he/she would think you were horrible and that you couldn't satisfy them or perhaps there would be anxiety because they'd want to try out more than you were comfortable with. Of course, don't expect virgin-virgin sex to be that great the first time. It's good if you guys are gonna keep practicing though.

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  • Dreamcatcher104

    Stupid as hell*

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