Is it normal to walk up to a group of asian guys?

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I am really wanting to get to know more Asian men. I am Caucasian and I am only attracted to men if Asian appearance. If there was a group of, say two men, at a bar or club, would I look like a real flirt or slut if I walked up to them and started talking to them? And what on earth could I talk about? I am so desperately needing to do this but I am feeling very shy about it, even though I am not that shy normally ... Is it normal to want to do this?

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  • Luckeas
    12 years ago

    Just do it girl. :P I'm asian and I would love it if a hot chick would come up and talk to me. A lot of asians love white chicks but some of them don't. Just do it and don't be afraid. Talk about random shit. :) :)

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  • misschickadee123
    12 years ago

    well i'm an asian girl & i have a brother, who is 25 yrs old, and trust me if any girl, especially a white girl, walked up to him in a bar he would love it! i say go for it! i do not think you would look like a slut, just a friendly person who is getting to know people, there's nothing wrong w/ that. and just talk to them about anything you would normally talk about with other guys, just because they're asian doesn't mean they can't relate to the same kinds of topics. i hope this helps & good luck! =)

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  • Sh33pzilla
    12 years ago

    I'm an asian guy and I would be thrilled if a white chick walked up to me in a bar. Sorry can't comment on what it looks like. I'm shy and everything looks abnormal in social situations so I generally disregard those feelings.

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  • TreeGo
    11 years ago

    You will not look like a slut if you walked up to a guy or a group of guys. If anything, men love it when women make the first move. It shows that she is interested in him, which is always flattering for the man to know, and it's also a nice change of pace.

    Even if you are desperate, I would strongly dissuade you against giving off any kind of vibe that would show just how much you want this. Men usually do not like clingy women. Flirt with him, show interest in him, but let him make the next move. It will make him appreciate you all that much more.

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    • Sh33pzilla
      11 years ago

      Some of us like clingy women. Be yourself ladies. To your first point though, that is absolutely true. Any woman that approaches me first has my undivided attention.

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      • TreeGo
        11 years ago

        I agree with you that ladies should just be themselves. If you change what you are in order to appeal to some guy, the relationship is doomed for failure right from the beginning. I cannot speak for all men, but I know a lot of men do not like clingy women because it simply isn't an attractive quality in a mate. Many men need space and time before a relationship can go any further.

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago

    I am the original poster. You guys (AND one girl!) are totally awesome ... I greatly appreciate this feedback. More than you will ever know in fact! I hope where I will be going (sydney) the guys are into white girls... xx ... Thanks again!

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    Like the others ^^^ im and asian, well half japanese. But i think most guys , asian or other wish, love getting attention from girls. and as for what to talk about, talk about what u would with any other person silly. There are just people.

    P.S. I wish girl around here had an asian fetish like u. xD hahaha *sigh*...

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