Is it normal to wait until marriage to lose virginity?

I'm waiting and it's my choice.

People are different and so are their perspectives and values. It would be highly abnormal (among other things) to tell someone that they must have intercourse because someone else wants them to do it.

Its a choice and is normal.

It is normal and very ideal to wait. But it is very hard to keep at it. Once people lose their virginity, they fall into temptation. It is a choice, and if you want to then go for it, just make sure you're being safe. If you don't want to and you want to save yourself, don't let anyone pressure you to give it up, even your friends.

Im 20 and im still waiting

Yes. It is very normal. Sex is normal no matter when you have it or who you do it with

It is normal to wait...a lot of people don't want to wait now a days. Sex is great...but only if it means something.

yes it is normal most ppl wait becuz they dont want to loose it over some jerk and they wait to see if they are really have a relationship wwit the guy.

Its completely normal, some people do wait for personal, family or religion purposes.

Still got mine!

If you are a serious Christian and you're cute, smart, and popular, and male, you're a saint, and an expert at impulse gratification delay. You win the Puberty Christian Marshmallow test.

I think it really depends.. I think that you should save it for someone you love, married or not. I don't judge people who save it or not though.

It is normal but like hal sparks say "you don't wit for the one you practice for the one."

yes its normal but you might want to try it first

With respect to others beliefs , but for me , I find it very normal that male / female enjoy sex life before marriage ,so i don't find it a big deal that a lady keeps her virginity for her future husband , love and care is much more important .

Some of my friends are staying "pure" until they're married. Totally normal. The promise is broken easily, though.

Personally, I would think it's a bit foolish, but to each their own - if that's what they want to do, it's up to them.

I'm still waiting....

It is extremely uncommon but wouldn't be considered abnormal.

According to the Federal National Survey of Family Growth, more than 95 percent of Americans have had premarital sex.

Moreover, virgins are LESS likely to get married. So if you DON'T want to get married, stay a virgin.

I think if you've found the "one," they need to be taken for a test drive.

I think it's a beautiful thing to give your virginity to your true love after your marriage ceremony. I plan to do so.

This is most commonly where cheating happens. To be with one person your whole life is a lovely fantasy. But really the statistics show that it takes up to 16 well sextural partners to find the one your both emotionally stable and sextually compatible with. Im not saying for sure, but at some point, one or the other is going to cheat.

It's not only abnormal to wait, it's stupid!

If you say sex isn't an important part of a relationship you are either lying through ur teeth or ignorant as hell because you don't know any better. And I guess you don't know what ur missing if u only have sex with one person ur whole life. But chances are there is someone else out there that can do u waaaay better than ur first. This isn't 1950 and humans are like any other mammal. The purpose of life is to spread ur genetics as far and wide as u can. It's why males can reproduce till they die. Because monogamy wasn't part of the plan until we started walking up right, and face each other when reproducing.

WTF
You have active parts
Get busy.
God doesnt burn you in hell for sex.
Premarital sex doesnt ruin sex .
Get your groove on.
If religion is your thing, be a good person.
Thats what matters.

Nothing wrong with it, but most people don't do that anymore.

No, it's not normal, sex is an animalistic instinct.

Cats, dogs, horses, pigs, elephants, all of those creatures will have sex, and none of them get married (unless it's some stupid human "marrying" the animals.)

The natural desire for sex is for reproductive purposes, when you're attracted to someone, what you find attractive is traits you'd like to see in your kids (i.e. if you like blondes, you subconsciously want your kids to be blonde.)

Marriage and sex should not be directly affiliated. I'm not saying go out and cheat, humans (or most of them atleast) are monogomists, but I don't think marriage should have any effect on when you have sex, because as I said, marriage is just some made up human-thing. If you're ready, go for it, just take precautions.

fuck the bible sex is awesome.

Thats what ugly people tell themselves to sleep at night....
Im 16 and i love having girls arround me, jacking off just doesnt work for me

People should wait to have sex until they're with someone they really trust. If that requires marriage, so be it and I hope s/he ends up being good :).

It's obviously normal considering LOTS of people do it, but i think it's dumb and pointless.

Who cares what you want to do? It's your choice.

well im 23 now and lost my viginity and 15

It's not normal to me, in so much as nobody I know has waited until marriage to have sex.

Normality is commonality and popularity right? So no, not normal, but that doesn't make it a negative thing. Do what you want.

If that's what YOU want.

If you only "want" to because someone is guilting you into staying a virgin then no.

Otherwise,have fun? :)

My late wife and I waited; she was 28, I was 25. My current wife and I did not wait, were even active before 1st wife died. I regret that we did not wait. My first wife was seriously disabled with MS, no sex in years; besides, she remembered HER mother washing up immediately after. We adopted a daughter; wife was too "hung up" by her mother's attitude for us to have our own. Current wife and I were wrong to go ahead while 1st wife still living. It didn't do our relationship any good.

Yes it is normal...whoever does not wait until marriage lacks morals, is impure and is destined for hell.

Its normal, i lost mine at an age of 12. but its better to wait tho.

Let's put it this way - it's a good idea. This is never a bad choice.

Lost mine at nine, and once I found out how good sex was, wished I have started at six!!!!

Loosing your virginity after wedlock is the way it is suppose to be. Before marriage according to God's Word is a horrible sin, and is disgustingly wrong.

I think losing your viginity is something really special and sould be done with the person u truly love because its not something you can get back once lost. As for me I am very determined to do it only after my marriage but I guess I might be too early to speak too.

lots of people these days, whether christian or not have sex before marriage. To some, it's an emotional and special thing. To others, it's just a physical thing. Personally, i find it okay no matter what you do. i think it's slightly odd to wait until marriage, it shows you have lots of restraint.. or too much fear. i plan on losing it in college.