Is it normal to wait until marriage for sex?

To start off with om actually shocked at some of the replies on this post. People saying that waiting is "stupid" and that by waiting you "ruin your youth". Different people have different opinions about how they want to live their lives and what makes them happy. I don't understand why anyone should decide for EVERYONE else what is right or wrong, stupid or smart.

What im trying to get at is its your life and whatever you believe is 'right' then do it. If you want to wait till marriage then do! Anyone who will force you to do otherwise does not respect you nor your decision (Which let me emphasis should be done by YOU and ONLY you). Its actually nice to see that there are still people out there who grasp how meaningful sex should be and that it is not something that should be rushed into.

Be yourself please.I respect you

so if your "peers" are pressuring you to kill someone, you would be obliged to do it right?
just like how you want to have sex now.

kids these days.
they only care what their friends think and care for their friends.

Fuck all these people. You do as you please.

Very normal. Don't let anyone tell u otherwise. Hang on till marriage! It is so worth it

Wait until you're ready and the choice is completely yours. Never do it for the wrong reasons.

its fine wait , dont listen to your retarded friends if he loves you he wont cheat, and if he does then the hell with him ,he doesnt care about you then. and only the most pathetic guys cant control themselves or wait.

Abnormal? Normal? Not the issue. If you are not ready you are not ready. Don't let anyone pressure you. Your boyfriend sounds like a good guy, so don't worry.

Yeah, do what you want, like a dew others said.

And if he cheats on you then so what? If thats the kind of guy he is then you shouldnt want to be with him.

It is normal. You may experience some dry years though since almost nobody marries to her teenager love.

I say... Have sex after you're married. Satistics have shown that people who wait till aftet they are married. Enjoy their honeymoon better than people who have already slept together. It just makes it more exciting and meaningful to wait.

He may cheat but don't let that change your values. If he does just find someone new

Tell him how you feel. Lay all your cards on the table and take it from there he may not want to wait for something that might not happen and you should not be forced into something you do not want todo. You might split but such is life.

so you plan on getting married soon? because i doubt he is going to wait 10 years to marry you and finally get some.

Wait until marriage. It's a sacred thing, and has been destroyed by people just doin it for fun, and porn. It takes away the meaning behind it. Wait, if he really loves you he'll wait too

Omg people are stupid!
Don't have sex until your married, imagine how amazing your wedding night will be. Trust me, you don't want your husband to be like the 10th guy you have had sex with cuz it won't be special anymore.

i don't know.
its ok but sex really brings couples closer together. i know thats what happened to me. but if youre not doing it then it means youre not making sex the most important thing, which is good.

Good> WAit and it will take it own turn. Have sex after marriage

Firstly, it's not ok to have or not have sex just because "you have to". You should decide when's the time for it, usually when you trust eachother enough. If you want to, you're not going to hell for it, it only means you love the guy and are willing to move on.
Honestly, i see the whole "no sex till marriage" thing as an excuse and it would be a bit offensive and frustrating after a while, and i'd seriously question our relationship. Not saying you should have sex to keep him, thats another dumb idea, but do it when ready.

Just do it with the right person :)

If you want to ruin your youth, okay, but let him enjoy his.

Life is to short to not enjoy one of this worlds greatest pleasures SEX! But im not a believer in a judge mental religious group tellin u what's right or wrong either... But sex is amazing! Only do it with people u trust though. But I wouldn't worry about the marriage thing. That's just another way for a Guy to rush into a marriage to get laid!

well u dont have to do it as long as ur bf is ok wit it then its fine but ive been in that postition before and to be honest ive lost faith in her becuz weve love eachother so much and sex was the next step the we needed to go and thats they only ting that was stoping us and i also said that same thing as ur bf but sooner or later i started getting tired of it as iam growing up and we untended to seperated cuz i lost feelings like its not bad to do it as long as he knows how to take it out on time unless he an ass n leaves it in u so yep me i alwase take it out rite when im about to cum so my gf never gets prego ..shes alwase on time for her peroid yep
WARNING: do not try unless u are good if u suck please use a condom..aka for the losers hahah yall get no feelings

I think you are very admirable. Do what you believe in.

Do what you think is right. While a lot of people end up regretting sex, almost no one regrets waiting.

I will never have sex with my girlfriend before marriage..i respect you

This is normal. Anyone who says it isnt probobly has an STD. Trust me you do not want that. Do not let anyone pressure into sex. It is perfectly normal to wait. Some people believe in waiting till marriage. It means you actually have a lot of self control. Not everyone who wants to fuck you is going to want to put a ring on your finger. Just remember this. Since a lot of people do not realize it. Also if they fuck you and you get pregnant that does not mean they want the child or you. Sure they are paying child support but that will not mean the child has a father/mother.

it's completely normal! i would recommend after marriage cause if someone puts the "protection" the wrong way on accident without you knowing... you might end up with a child... and teen moms struggle through school when they have kids. trust me. my friends a teen mom and school is really hard for her. and on top of that, her boyfriend left cause he cant take the fact that hes a father.

Dont listen to your friends, have sex when you want to, not on command, or better yet, when you're married :)

no get in the sack better get the practice in because if all else fails your be in the same postion with your next fella.