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I'm a guy and I promised myself I would only lose my virginity to a girl that I'm in love with and if she is in love with me. What would woman think about this? And should I stick to my morals?
You seem like the romantic type. Problem is, you could get your heart broken after losing your virginity if the love didn't last. Either way, stick to your morals.
It's normal however very rare, in a really good way that is. The girl ending up with you would be very lucky. ;)
Its rare these days because most people lose there inner dreams or give in on there selves way to easy.
I'm also a rarity, to have kept my dream and morals alive ever since I decided I wanted to become an Animator at the age of 5. My moral is to not have sex after I get into my dream job, and find a man who is willing to love me as I love him without breaking my heart in the end.
Not all of us are rabbits, indiscriminately fucking whoever and whatever we please. Some of us do reserve ourselves for people whose company we actually enjoy and value.
Just so happens, some of us have a lot of folks whose company we value and enjoy. Perfectly normal.
Good for you =)
I think sex is something you shouldn't rush. God knows I wish I would have went back and waited for my first time. It really is more precious than people think.
There's no 'right' choice on this issue, it's a personal one, so if that's what you want to do then there's nothing wrong with that.
Eww, no. How dare you to have principles?!
No, seriously, were you actually wondering whether this is normal? Of course it's normal!
Its normal, and its very cute that some guys think like this! (said from a girl) i have already lost mine and im only 16 but u have the right to think what u want! Just make sure u actually find the right one!
@.@ Finally a man who has a heart bigger than his dick. Truth be told, Men these days can't wait to "feel good" so all sense of Romance is thrown out the door. that's why half of the society is teen pregnant. A man who wants the feeling of giving love and being loved IS the most inspiring thing and most of us goody two shoes girls wish more men were like that. Thank you for making my day!
How many people have asked this already?
You don't have to have sex with someone if you don't want to, it's okay to wait! Life is very long, stop treating everything like a race.
i think it's perfectly fine.
Yes some people will poke fun at you, or put you down for it but... THEY don't have to live with the consequences of your decisions. But YOU do.
So if you want to wait, then wait. There's nothing wrong in waiting until you feel ready in body AND maturity level
You can stick to your morals if you want, but just realize most people today are NOT going to be doing what you are doing. And you may end up disappointed that when you finally do have strong feelings for someone and its the one you want, she probably wasnt sitting around waiting for you the way you were waiting for her.
You sound like you have a sheltered life.
you and my boyfriend are exactly alike (: stick to your morals. it's hard to find guys like you these days
But you will be absolutely atrocious at sex without some practice, i mean any sex is good but still wouldn't you prefer to make the one you love cum instead of not knowing what to do?
Yes. I know a few guys like that too. I like guys with self control and abstinence
I'll probably get voted off the page for this, but I regret waiting for the woman I married. Too many experiences I missed out on...two and a half decades of wondering what it'd be like with someone else.
I love this entire post.
Rock on man you're beautiful, just beautiful.
And it makes me feel verrryy awesome for being the same in mind.
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i, my whole life have wanted to have sex as soon as possible before i got married. but now, i see the other way roun. luckily im still a virgin to give it up to the girl i love. i know who she is. she just doesnt know it yet lol. she will though. very soon:D we shall get married. do it.. grt her pregnant. have a kid, and have sex many more nd have a few more kids :D
You wont regret losing it to someone who you really love. I believe that love is not about taking, it's all about giving. I mean, just make up your mind and foresee all possibilities if you make a decision. Good luck!
Even though i am sure i will not lose my virginity, i sort've try n stick to this sort of thing.
Forever Alone, at anyrate.
I wish I could date you!!! Men who value sex as part of love and not just pleasure are few, I admire the choice you've made and I wish you all the luck in the world!!
they would love it like they nvr loved nothin at all. and hell yeah #KeepStickinn!
It's not ''lost'' your virginity to the one you love.
It's preserve / give
I say ones first time should at least mean something. It's not "normal" but it's DAMN respectable.
I live in the US, so to say that it is normal would be a lie. However you seem to be (at least in this case) someone of high moral principle, which is something that is severely lacking in todays society. Stick to your guns, if a woman will not wait for you then she is not in love with you, so ultimatly you producing a win win situation for yourself. If she is willing to wait, then you have found someone that is in love with you, if she is not then you know very quickly and can move on to a better healthier relationship. All that being said there is something to be said for sexual compatability, the two of you may be head over heals in love with one another, but if you are not sexually compatable it can lead to problems down the line with animosity or an inability to be together that leads to further familial issues.
Yes, this is completely normal. I myself and the same way (I am a female though). I give you all props, its very hard to find people like this.
She would want you to be good in bed, if not she will not love you as you wont know what your doing. She will laugh about how crap the virgin was with her friends.
Sleep with hookers till your good
Some people don't hold much importance to their virginity, mainly males from my experience. But if it's something important to you then it's perfectly normal. It's a beautifully romantic notion and a big deal sometimes I know for me it was hell to lose so waiting for the right guy would be much more worth it than to some random in an alley way behind a party house as i know someone has done :(
Of course you should stick to your morals. I think it's very mature of someone to think of sex as more than just physical pleasure, but as a commitment.
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you'll regret.
Nice idea and no reason on earth why you shouldn't. Just want to throw the following thoughts out though:-
(1) Good luck finding a virgin :)
(2) It will become a Very Big Deal. The chance of your first serious rel'po being The One
and lasting forever very slim. The more you care about your first, the worse it'll hurt
when it's over.