Is it normal to wait this long?

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So there's this guy that I've been talking to, for 3 months. I've had a thing win him the whole time, we text all the time almost everyday. The past month and a half I've been hanging out with him more and whatnot. We act like we're dating, when we hang out at my friends we kiss and act like a couple, but he hasn't asked me out yet. I've talked about this with him, why he hasn't yet. He says things like he likes the way things are now, and he's going to just not yet. We've done stuff, and he wants to have sex but I'm making him wait. He's not the player type, he's been in long relationships, longest one was 8 months. I just want to know if it's normal to be waiting for something that might not even happen.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Why should he ask you out?

    He's having his cake and eating it!! Don't have sex with him if you are not in a fully committed relationship. You will only get hurt.

    Personally, I think he's playing you like a fiddle!

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    • Nokiot9
      9 years ago

      She said she's making him wait. Which might be why he won't take the plunge. I won't commit myself to something I've never tried.

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    Don't do it! Trust me on this. Keep him waiting, stop kissing him, holding him, etc. Don't be played a fool; he may have someone else that he's doing the same things with and that may be why he doesn't want it official.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    He's playing you. If you wish to proceed, proceed with caution.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Suck him off to find out if he has any diseases.

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    He probably has another girl or girls and is trying to decide which one he wants to date

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Why should he ask you out? Dating costs money. Does he have a job? If he can see you and make out with you without having to plan anything or pay for anything, why should he bother?

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