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My name is Ann. I am happy in a relation with my girlfriend. I want to commit myself to her, but we have a problem. She’s gonna go away to another country to study there for 1 year. I afraid that she can meet somebody else there, or cheat on me and I installed spy app SpyToMobile at her phone. Is it normal?
If you're that damn paranoid that she'll cheat, why did you even date her in the first place? Also, spying on her is pretty low.
You don't sound very loving. That selfish bullshit will drain her battery. I hope she finds the app and cuts her loses by dumping your crazy ass!
Spying on someone you love is still pretty low. Is there any reason why you felt like you couldn't trust her?
No it's not normal it it's definitely not healthy you've crossed a line in a relationship, also as for your comment about not being able to find it, that's not true, If she gets suspicious there is software for both rooted and unrooted phones and tablets that can detect hidden apps and software and to be honest I hope she does find it because no one deserves to have spying devices installed into their phone because of someone else's insecurity
I can't trust a person who has betrayed her former girlfriend. I do not want to get stabbed in the back and learn about it in a year or two. If anyone knows what SpyToMobile application is, please tell me. A person who had a similar situation advised it to me on similar forum. She caught the cheater with this app.
Not normal, not healthy and I hope she finds out before she continues a relationship with someone as sneaky and controlling as you are
My fears were grounded. My gf went to a party this saturday and cheated on me there. I read her texts and she agreed to meet with some Judy. Thanks to SpyToMobile. Don't take it all on trust alone
If you can't trust her , I would consider finding a new partner . She can still have a fling and not text the person after the night ?
You say you love her but, seriously, you're obsessed with her.
I don't think your relationship means she lives under your constitution as a "subject" to your "country," meaning the monitor of her activity through her personal device is a breech of trust and rights.
So, you may want to reconsider how you handle this relationship long distance.