Is it normal to use a boy to get over your ex? guys do it to girls..

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Okay, so yeah. The title sounds bad. But I dont mean it like that...
I was dating a guy for a total of three years, and he completely broke my heart.
But anyways, thats another matter.
Basically, as soon as we broke up, he moved on to random girls, dating them for about a week at a time, and you can honestly tell he doesnt like them that much..
But it seems to be working for him, and he seems to be getting over me and im happy for him, i really am, but do you think i should do the same?
Im not really sure how to get over him, but do you think i should date some random guys and transfer my feelings for my ex onto them, like he does?
I know it sounds heartless.. :/

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Why would anyone think you should do that? I think you should date other guys, but not because you're trying to get over your ex and you definitely shouldn't "transfer" your feelings onto them. I'm not even quite sure what you mean by that but it sounds like a terrible idea. Date new people, but with an open mind.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    14 years ago

    you're being completely sexist thinking every guy pulls that on girls, how about you not hook up with anybody because the thought of someone like you having potential to procreate makes my stomach churn

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    How could you be so heartless? Yeah, how could u be so heartless. Do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do-do-do

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It does work but don't get serious with anyone until you are totally over your ex.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    There are much better ways to get over a guy. You seem like a classy girl, and I think you'd regret lowering your self standards and skanking it up. Go out with your girls, watch some sappy movies, eat ice cream, work out, spend some time with your family, take up a new hobbie, research and learn about a topic you know nothing about... and those are just a FEW suggestions!

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  • Clayman88
    14 years ago

    His*

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  • Clayman88
    14 years ago

    Hes way of getting of g/f's is to be a man whore. Not all men are like that. Some have class. You should not lower yourself like that. You should try getting over him by first giving it some time. You know be single for some time and hang with friends. Don't think about him so much and when you feel you are ready to get back into a relationship start dating again. You don't and shouldn't have to basically whore yourself out even if it is just emotionally to get over someone.

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