Is it normal to unintenionally offend people...

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To the point that they despise you?

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Based on 84 votes (66 yes)
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  • bobmcay
    13 years ago

    omg this happened to me and I feel like shit :( I tryed apologising multiple times and they just told me off

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  • bigguy2010
    13 years ago

    Heck, these days it seems I offend people just by waking up in the morning.

    Just be aware that there are those who thrive on drama and look for anything that might offend them in the slightest. Ignore them.

    Be who you are and smile while doing so. Those who matter will tell you when you go overboard.

    Best Wishes!!!

    P.S. I hope this post didn't offend anyone.

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    • Lord_Of_All_Cabbage
      13 years ago

      This post offends me.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      13 years ago

      I agree with you. These days, it seems like people are just so touchy.

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  • thekat444
    12 years ago

    i do that 2, im way too blunt, need to watch my mouth cuz everyone seems to be on their periods or something...lol

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    Yeah I've misjudged a couple of jokes in my time and accidentally insulted some people... It's easy to forget that not everybody is your friend, not everybody shares your sense of humour and not everybody is in as good a mood as you sometimes :(

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  • t33h33
    12 years ago

    you can;t help the way you were brought up and the way you have been taught to speak and think. People close to you will get to know the way you are and will learn that you don;t mean to be an asshole.

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  • HjchKnights
    12 years ago

    People these days are so touchy :(
    ...can't take jokes no more?
    You can say ANYTHING and they just take it so badly.
    Blaah, this happens to me all the time.
    Relax buddy. Unfortunately..it IS normal. D:

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  • gogo45
    12 years ago

    I would say be aware of other peoples body language and see if there open to what you're saying. Also to be an affective talker, you have to be an affective communicator.

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  • Spiderman7
    13 years ago

    Man everyone these days is like that :P its pretty normal :)

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  • loyally
    13 years ago

    You're responsible for what you say. They are responsible for how they interpret what you say. They shouldn't take things personally.

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  • Ms.Caffinated
    13 years ago

    My cousin does this and it makes me want to strangle her. But she does it often and always starts it off to sound like a compliment >:c I do not have a problem with opinions (AT ALL) so if someone tells me, "Eh, i don't like that shirt. lets find another" I would smile and find another, but if she was with me when i was younger and chunckier (I haven't went shopping with her since i was a kid because the way she acts) , "Oh thats a cute shirt, but i wouldn't have the stomach to fill it out like you do." HAHA fuckin bitch I'm skinnier than you know!! >:D -continues to laugh maniacally at my imaginary cousin- lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i do sometimes i think, for reasons i dont know at first. but they do too to me , so it evens out

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