Is it normal to try to get back with my ex?

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I've been living with this girl for 2 1/2 years, we were official for six months only she is 22 right now and i'm 24( we are both girls..yes we are lesbians) anyway it's been almost as if we were together but without the title,i cheated on her with my ex gf and she stuck around I sleeped with one of our friends and she stuck around, I treated her like crap anddd she stuck around, we had a huge fight a few weeks ago and we are definitely done, but now I want to change and get back with her but I think its to late she needs to think about it...she has lied to me a lot about talking to guys... After the fight she contacted an old crush and she was telling him "babe" & "I miss you" and she lied about it... in the past she has also lied about talking to her ex boyfriends talking about when they were together...now she is doing everything i've done to her(witch I deserve) but what do I do to fix it? To trust eachother? I even gave her a promise ring, she wont wear it, she is constantly on her phone and she has a password on it.. I want to get back with her but i'm so paranoid about everything she does... Any suggestions??? What do I do next?

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Based on 38 votes (18 yes)
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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Accept the fact your a cheating bitch and your relationship is over. Have a nice day.

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  • tego
    12 years ago

    is normal to get back at ur ex. my ex still make love to me, the taught of how he disvirgin me is fresh in me.i love the way he fuck me.

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  • bigbob101
    12 years ago

    wow your a turdie mc turdie but Its Ok if she really loves you she will forgive you Love is about forgiveness no matter hom much it hurts

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  • cookiesaregreat
    12 years ago

    Yes, its all your own fault.

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  • Crushed86
    12 years ago

    Thank you everyone for the input, i know i messed up but i will fight for her love she has told me she is still in love with me but she needs to see if i do change before giving me another chance... Meanwhile i'm paranoid someone else will come into her life and since she is hurt she will fall for that person 'cause she finds comfort in them...i'm trying 110% to change my anger and attitude....

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    I'm used to hearing the other side of the story. Where they're treated like crap and they are asking stupidly whether or not they should get back with their ex whom has cheated on them more than once. She gave you chances and you hurt her so she looked to other people for comfort. That's what happens over time when you break the trust she has for you and when she needs emotional comfort but can't turn to you because you've already hurt her enough..

    It's normal to want to get back with her. You want to fix the mistakes you made. I've gone through that feeling. But people can't just change 'like that'. And more than likely, it'll be very hard for you to trust each other, especially emotionally, which will cause more fighting if you did get back together.

    I threw in my 2 cents. Give one to her and call us even.

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  • Ms.IDK
    12 years ago

    You obviously disrespected her and yourself and your relationship. Do everyone a favor and move on, learn from your mistakes with her and don't do it with your next gf.

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  • A_Slice_of_Life
    12 years ago

    Accept the damage you've done and move on.

    No one deserves to be put through that.

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