Is it normal to try anal sex?

Why not just start using condoms during anal. You have to be daft and lazy to turn that option down...

I was hoping for something besides an enema :/ not that that wasn't a good source of information. I've heard some people just switching condoms but my boyfriend and I don't use condoms. But we only have two days left together anyway so we might not even end up doing it.

yeah go ahead, lol at the enema guy

We've only done anal once and we did it really slow so it wasn't fast enough for him to come....I don't know if I would be comfortable enough to do anal fast :/ the condoms us a good idea though i'll do that if we try anal again

I heard douching is not good for your vaginal PH. It cleans out all the good bacteria leaving you vulnerable, I don't know what to suggest but as you already know you can get an infection from his penis entering your bum and then your vagina, maybe you could just start using condoms when you're gonna do anal.

Can't you just do vaginal first and then anal? Problem solved.

That's the kind of answer I was looking for disthing, was something that wouldn't ruin the mood. And for the person who said ew, if this grosses you out you probably shouldn't read something that has anal sex in the title

There are correct ways and wrong ways of doing anal, and if your not cleaning yourself with an enema first, your doing it wrong. Period. Lots of my female friends talk about "the heat of the moment" but the ones who asked me for help, and clean themselves first, enjoy it more.

Enema's come in many many types and flavors. If your starting out, I'd suggest a douche/enema bulb, or even getting a small syringe for babies from like walgreens. Don't take a full bottle of water (I recommend bottled water for water only types, since tap water can contain microbes) The idea is to put water in, and when it comes back out like it went in (clear) your ready. If your doing any ass to mouth, I'd suggest a soapy enema followed by a pure water cleanser. But thats kinda advanced.

Anyway, the water will hydrate you inside, cause your body to relax and be more acceptive, and eliminates much of the harmful/nasty/smelly stuff (although not all, so safe is better). Also, make sure to use lots and lots of lube. If you use the syringe idea, you can fill it with lube to put the lube inside you. The rectum cannot make its own lubrication, and any "intruder" can cause discomfort (among other things). With the proper cleaning, and proper lubing, anal can be as much, if not more enjoyable than other types of sex! And if you clean correctly, ass to vagina is fine.