Is it normal to touch your girlfriend during sleep

Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been together for several months and for I'm her first, she still into the no sex before marriage thing and never even did anything sexual to herself before. I respect that though she's giving me quite a hard time (Pun intended!). However, starting about a month ago, I tried touching her during sleep. As she is often very exhausted, she didn't wake up and even got wet a little I think. I always stopped however, as I didn't want her to wake up. Most times she was pretty horny the next morning and ashamed of it. So one day, when she was totally wasted and tired from our neighbour's party, we went to bed and I waited some time after she fell asleep. I then started out normal, but thought I'd try going trough with it. So when I noticed she got wet, I continued and even didn't stop when she moved a little, holding her in position. It took quite a while but then I finally felt her beginning to spasm and I immediately withdrew my hand, pretending to sleep. I saw trough my eye lids that she was awake and after a few seconds went to the toilette. She came back after a while and as I had come during fingering her myself, I guess we both fell asleep very quickly. The next day, she was somehow different during breakfast, which is why I asked, if everything's ok and she admitted, she had dreamt of sleeping with me and actually liked it. She said that made her think about her abstinence and what I'd say about it now. I told her I won't talk her into anything for it's her decision and that I will support her and stick by her which ever way she decides. She was hugely smiling after that and said she was thankfull she has a boyfriend who'd like her even if she didn't stick to her prior decisions.
This all made me think and so I wanted to ask if it is normal to touch one's girlfriend during sleep and how some girls would feel about that?

Oh and I'm not an English native, so forgive my mistakes, please.

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Comments ( 10 )
  • Darkoil

    That's a bit rapey.

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  • Justsomejerk

    She is very lucky to have such a supportive and understanding rapist, uh I mean boyfriend.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    I was in a relationship in which my gf wanted to wait untill marrage so I know how hard it is ( this time no pun intended.) but you forcefully took her choice away from her. It's creepy and it's wrong.

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  • Justateenager

    i did it before exept she wasnt my girlfriend and she was sleeping
    but i clearly see her touching herself around me so w/ about that?

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  • ccjigsaw

    For her, it didn't seem like a matter of not being physically ready to lose her virginity, but that she wanted to wait for her own moral reasons. Therefore, I think what you did was very wrong. Had she seemed like she wanted to, but she was just scared, then doing things like that would help her get more used to it because she's in a relaxed state. HOWEVER, she said no. And not no, I want to but i'm scared, she said no, I want to wait. You need to respect that. If a man asked you if you'd like a little penis up the ass, and you said no, then one night your asleep and he slips his dick up your ass... well. There you have it. Weather you woke up the next day disgusted, ashamed, confused or delighted. The choice was taken away from you.

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  • MilleBornes

    You'll feel great for a moment and she'll regret her decision for a LONG time causing loads of other problems which will probably break the relationship and make her feel even worse. DO NOT go that path. Enjoy your innocent woman, there aren't close to many left. YOU DO NOT have the right to fuck up her mentality like that. Now put it back right. Seriously Everyday you need to reinforce her decision to abstain and leave her alone while she's sleeping. Seriously. After she is reinforced, maybe a week or two (2) , try asking, in a subtle loving way, for handjobs, blowjobs, giving her oral, anything. THAT'S the correct way to pressure. If she doesn't want to then you either wait or dump a beautiful (I'm guessing lol), beautiful, innocent woman with standards for leftovers that aren't worth it and would probably leave you for a more innocent respectful man,if not their abusive past bf. BASICALLY, cool it Mr. Rapey lol. This is seriously wrong.

    From: Mr. Bornes

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  • MilleBornes

    To touch while she sleeps? Fuck yea! BUT NOT YOU!!! She said no. That's not right. It's not fair to take away her choices, essentially her identity. You'll feel

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  • Jeaneathean

    Different to the above: I think she was fully aware of what you were doing.

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  • Avant-Garde

    That's not okay. You are raping her in a sense.

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  • CheyChey

    What are you doing man. If she finds out you're screwed. quit that shit, it's not even normal. at all

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