Is it normal to to leave a woman for going back to stripping ?

You said you were okay with the fact that she WAS a dancer, you never said you'd be okay with it if she was currently one. No woman should sink so low, nomatter how much debt she's in. There's such a thing as going under administration, where you pay lawyers an extremely low fee monthly and they pay your debt off. Tell this to her, tell her showing her body to other men is unacceptable, and doing it for money is undignified. If she gives you sass and tells you you're wrong then it might be time to find a decent classy woman.

Eh, My current boyfriend says he´s fine with my past as a cam-whore. Does that mean that I would jump back into business without at least talking to him about it?
No.

She shows complete lack of respect towards you, and I would dump her just because of that. Sure it will hurt but you will get through it and find someone worthy of you.

If I ever get in deep, heavy debt that I MUST solve, I would give my BF the choice to either lend me money or I would make sure that I earned the money in other ways. Hence giving him the chance to know what´s up and then deal with it.

Because yeah I understand wanting to get through a financial crisis but she should have been more respectful about it.

Don´t marry this cunt.

Dump her. Personally I don't believe int marriage, but "there ain't no ring on my finger"? The fuck is that? So what? Your in a committed relationship, you shouldn't go showing your body to anyone who'll pay you for it. If she cared about you she'd stop because she knows how it's affecting you. Find someone better.

If you really love her don't leave. If you can imagine life with out her than go be a free bird and don't lead her on anymore.

My ex was a stripper and even ended up being a nurse oddly enough. I thought the same thing at first, it's just a job. But I discovered it's far from being just a job. It's a whole other underworld lifestyle. My first clue was her calling an after hours home delivery service and ordering a fifth of whiskey at 3 am and had it put on her tab.

I have never understood the issue with that she provides a service and is paid well for it athletes whore their physical talents too and models it's not that big of a leap when you think of it so chill on the judgement if you love her you love her if not than bounce something so trivial has nothing to do with such a deep emotion such as love.

You said to her that you were OK with her PAST stripping, not her stripping in the present. Rose has a good idea. Try that.

I'd say leave her. Being a stripper is just a polished up whore.

Meh. I don't like the "I'll leave stripping if you marry me" blackmail thing. If I was you I would leave just due to that.

That said, if you are questioning about leaving her then you should probably leave her as the relationship wasn't strong enough to keep yourself from strongly thinking about leaving the relationship.

You said you were ok with what she does. Maybe you were at the time but aren't anymore. Yes, that's unfair on her however people change, with that changes what they find personally acceptable. You're allowed to change your mind on something even if it is going back on what you previously have said. However you should explain that to her.

Tell her that you are no longer happy about her stripping career and that you know you said you were but that sometimes people change. Tell her that you want her to do what she wants to do but you don't think what she wants to do can fit in with what you want your partner to be doing and that you two should move on to find new people that don't mind the choices you both make.

For goodness sake, don't get married. My bias against it aside, if you're really questioning the relationship then flinging in something you paid money for isn't the right way to go about the situation, let alone get married in.

There is nothing wrong with being OK with someone's past actions, but also to not want them to continue or do them again in the future with you. You need to make your feelings clear to her. If she chooses stripping knowing it bothers you, ring or not, time to split - you aren't a good match.

Well you have to have a serious conversation with her. You don't need to tell her it is in your desk. But you can ask her if things to get to that point where there was a ring on her finger, and you were willing as a couple to help her with her finances (because you can't ask your partner to quit a job they need without accepting some responsibility for that lost income), would she be willing to quit?

If the answer is no, then you have to decide if you can live with it, and it sounds like you already decided.

Leave that hoe.

Stripping is her job. Stud service sex for her is your job. Don't get married, just get to work.

As a couple, would you be willing to help her out of her financial difficulties?

Ask her to quit stripping, and when she says there's no ring on her finger invite her into your office, then pull out the ring, show it to her and then tell her it's over.
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time to put a finger in that ring

I tend to be more open minded with things like this. I don't think I'd have a problem with my girl stripping, if she was hooking or a pornstar then I would have some issues. I just don't see a big deal with nudity.

If you are in love with her and simply don't see a life without her due to many compelling factors and feelings well stay with her if she makes you happy but you need to figure out if the stripping is going to bother you or not? if you trust her and she is doing what she knows to take care of finances .. I wouldn't look at you side ways for staying but if it bothers you so much it's going to ruin or change the dynamic of your relationship .. don't put yourself or her through it because you can simply separate and she will strip and settle up her debt and you will move forward in life to something and someone else . If you are truly bothered by the idea of her stripping the only choice really is to leave or give her an ultimatum .