Is it normal to: to fear relationships because of sexual desires

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Is it normal To fear relationships because of sexual desires
I'm in my mid-twenties, and I've never had a serious sexual relationship. I have been with women, basically just flings of hooking up briefly, but nothing serious. At this point in my life I'm seeing many of my old/current friends develop healthy relationships, wondering why I haven't experienced what they are.
A part of me thinks it's my sexual desires, as I'm not drawn to traditional porn. I am turned on by the idea femdom, especially in mixed/fantasy wrestling. I'm very attracted to the idea of a woman being in control, mentally and physically. This kind of desire has been with me since puberty. I'm terrified to share this with even my closest friends, fearing they'll never look at me the same. Interestingly, don't have submissive desires in the workplace, in fact I am very assertive/outspoken in my position (where I have some female superiors). When it comes to sex though, I am not that guy.
I'm successful/comfortable in nearly every area in my life (health, money, friends, job security, family, etc.), with the exception sexual relationships. I really don't want this to continue throughout my life, being alone (especially for this reason) has scared me. Can anyone relate to my situation? Has anyone with femdom desires had difficulty with relationships, or better yet BEEN successful in relationships (it would certainly give me comfort).

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Well it's a normal fetish, have you tried joining clubs or groups to find women who are interested in the same thing you are? there's plenty out there.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    Try with clubs and groups to find a proper Domina for you!

    If you have this desire you wont ever be truly happy in a "normal" relationship. You are not strange and you are not weird in any sort of way.

    If you are curious about submission you are free to throw me a message. I'm a "bedroom sub" myself, meaning that I don't take this lifestyle outside of the sexual activities. Hours long foreplay with domination is ...it's nothing like anything I've ever experienced before i FINALLY started to live out my desires.

    Also. Please respect yourself and your desires. Just because it isn't the traditional thing doesn't mean that It's wrong!

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  • thecowboy911
    10 years ago

    Well listen man alot of women like to dominate either in the bedroom or in life situations. Dont listen to all the bs sayin women are wired to be dominated and men are the opposite , no. Its just ppl look at wat society dictates and think thats how they should live. It all depends on wat self image somebody have or even their mood regardless of gender.

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