Is it normal to to be angry at god for the death of loved ones?

If you are not a religious person why are you angry at God?
They died. Sad, but it happens to everyone

well if you were a true religious person then you would be happy that people die because they got back to heaven. i am sorry for your loss but you should get some professional help to deal with death.

thats a perfectly normal way to feel, and i'm sorry for your loss. this is exactly why i dont believe in god, because why would a supposedly loving god make innocent people suffer and die?
just tell your cousin to leave you alone.

Be angry if u feel angry and dont let anyone, religious or otherwise, tell you what you should do or feel. (as I "tell" you what to do heehe)

Basically: do you. Feel ur feeling and walk your road. Do things that feel right to you and as long as u are angry, you should probably continue to seek professional help.

Anger can fester and has the potential to infect other parts of ur life.

My daughter died when she was 3 days old. SIDS...they could not find anything physically wrong with her but i was worried when i was preggo and prayed a lot. I was scared but when she was born healthy, beautiful and happy i was so thankful and did not stop praying and thanking god for keeping her safe...i mean every waking moment i was in quiet mental prayer of thanks. So when she died on the 3rd day...i was so angry. So angry I was scared of myself I was so angry. It took a long time to stop being that angry...and it was only worse when my effin mother would try to pray me into acting like she wanted me to act.

Do you. Take care of urself. Hope u start feeling better soon. ~Orphan

don't worry, god can handle it

It's not normal to have imaginary father figures. That's just gay.

Fortunately:people die everyday she's not the first and not the last...and I would never think there would be a reason even if she was.I think this story isn't sad/sorry it's sarcastic.

I feel for you. I really do. I lost my parents six weeks apart from different illnesses. Mom was fighting cancer of the mouth for years. It finally got to her brain. Dad died from complications from surgery. I felt alot of anger. Mostly at god for letting my mother for suffering for so long. Either take her or make her well. I was in a fog for atleast 2 years. So, i get you.

Peace

sh'es with her god now so u know she's at peace

Anger is one of the stages of the grieving process. It has to have an outlet somewhere (both for you and your cousin). When my grandma died, the phone call came at 2am. I snuck out of the house and eventually virtually collapsed in a playing field. When I'd got over the shock (which made me feel sicker than I've ever done in my life), I started punching the ground in fury. Over two hours, I mashed hell out of that field. And when it was over, and it was all out of me, I went back to my family, who - for whatever reason - were standing in the back garden, watching the sun rise and not really talking.

I know things are different for you, but hopefully you see some parallels. And, finally, I'm really truly sorry you're going through this.

I've heard of this before and I'm so very sorry for your loss. My grandmother died, my 17 year old nephew was killed and last November I withdrew treatment from my dying father to let him die in peace.

I have been so devastated by the loss that I went totally deaf in one ear - apparently with the stress. However, we should analyse why we grieve. If the person is in pain it is better for them to die, but we are sad coz we miss them so much. I don't think it benefits you to turn this sadness into anger but if you are male it may be hard for you to express it. Blaming God isn't helping you as it's alienating you from your cousin.

Whatever you believe, you can be assured that you grandma would want you to stay close to your cousin and to be as happy as possible.

It will take time and you will always miss your grandma but the pain will lessen. Try to think of all the happier times you two shared that made you smile. Good luck.

when i was 10 a love 1 died and after that i dont pray or ask god for anything.

Stop dropping eggs.

First of all, sorry for your loss. But look at it this way: your grandmother was suffering, and God had to get her out of her sick body. She's in a better place and out of her misery. She's always looking down from heaven. Good luck to you, hope you start feeling better.

you seem like a mean and careless person. who even knows if there is a heaven, and who would be happy for someone to die? you must be another rude christian who doesn't respect anybody's feelings. let people grieve in there own way and time and people need to stop pushing there religion on others and be more supportive and understanding!! apparantly you never lost anyone dear to your heart. religion stinks!!! I hate it!