Is it normal to think your not good looking

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For some reason I think that I am not good looking, when i was little I was always skinny and people would make fun of me for that, if I was a girl and I was skinny I would of been called hot, but I am a guy so I was called weak and told I have eating problems, which I didn't because I ate the right amount for my age group. I am still skinny today, and I think that girls are just naturally not attracted to me, I don't try really hard to show off or anything, I don't try to be someone I am not, but when I look into the mirror I think that I am just not goood looking for some reason I have pimples and I look skinny, so with the thought of that in mind I don't like to go to public places, which makes me anti-social, which makes me depressed, is this normal?

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Verbal abuse can do permanent damage to a mans self esteem. I know where you're coming from. People have been making fun of my hair since I can remember and it has taken its toll on me. However, I still possess a shred of hope that there is a girl out there waiting for me, as there is one for you.

    Don't let what others say hurt you. At the end of the day the only person who's opinion is worth something is your own. I know that finding a girl is difficult, especially when there is a social hierarchy like in high school, but I can almost guarantee you that there is a girl out there waiting for you. All you have to do is go out into the world and find her.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Start exercising. Consistency is key; you don't have to do a lot, just do a little every day or every other day. You will feel better about yourself and it helps gain some confidence. I agree with Shuggy-chan too. Get out there and try some even if it's not totally you. Try not to worry so much and just have fun with it.

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    There's someone out there for everyone & i'm sure there are plenty of girls out there that would love a guy like you. If there are people who have fetishes for the obese, what makes you think there aren't anyone for "skinny" people?

    If you isolate yourself in that home of yours, you'll never know who you could have met! :D

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    dude, just get over it. Ive been the same all my life too, but although i am sorta bad at dating flirting is something im really goodd at, and tons of girls actually prefer skinny, lean guys.

    and i tell you another secret, if you want to know how i got my confidence to talk to person in genreal, including girls. Its my faking the shit out of it. I was always really shy at first with people, but i learned to change that be faking it till i even started believing it myself. i mean if they all thought i had it, and then I thought i was confidence, then you just suddenly realize, that hey, im not faking it anymore, i just am confident. So just be more proactive buddy

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    Girls like skinny guys too, even with pimple! Maybe if you evoke more social you will find someone special and will make you feel like the sexiest guy alive!!

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