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[i] Is it normal to think your friends don't like you? [ii] In regards to feeling like you are the only one who sends texts to your friends and they never text you. [iii] As well obsessing about why they don't text you back?
| Yes [i] | 7 | |
| Yes [i] & [ii] | 5 | |
| Yes [i] & [ii] & [iii] | 5 | |
| No | 5 |
Perhaps you should figure out the meaning of the word friend and see if these people even fit the criteria. I think you may be confusing acquaintances with friends. These people you are in school with are only around you because of their age and geographical proximity to the school, not because you all share common interests or affiliations. When you mature a bit and get out of school, you will encounter people with whom you share a bit more than a class or two.
Put your energy into your studies and forget trying to be one of the herd.
You shouldn't take it personal if people aren't as conscientious about returning calls/texts as you are. Some people are just like that. Though at the same time if this behavior becomes, or is, habitual than I wouldn't bother initiating contact. At least that's what I would do.
Yes it is normal because the DON'T like you. Learn to stand alone. Focus on good grades.
Hello let me help you... First of all, we all need friends.. (Most of us do right?).. We feel lucky when we have one ,or have more.. I specially only text my best friend, other than that people usually contact me (I NEVER CONTACT THEM). Sometimes with some other buddies etc i even choose to ignore the specific message for some reason.
But now listen carefully, you come off as a very "Needy/attention seeking person" if you text people alot, specially if you do it to test your so called friendship.
If you doubt they don't like you, it doesn't sound like friends to me.. It's something you should know deep in your heart.
Take a step back.. Enjoy yourself, and let them come to you.. Does that sound pretentious?.. Well sure it is but you gotta PICK and choose YOURSELF, and stop dwelling on the fact that some people don't text you back.
I've learned it the hard way, and i don't really care anymore.. I gotta focus on what i gotta do, and if i people feel the need to get in touch with me.. They contact me, never the other way :). Unless it's urgent, or if i get pregnant.. But i'm a guy so im not sure about that.