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is it normal to think you are in love with your female friend who is bisexual and out of the closet, even though you are still in the closet. and also how do you tell if you are in love with someone? and how do you work out your orientation because i think i might be bi?
You could do the hypothetical: tell her you're attracted to another woman and what does she suggest you do about it?
OR ask her how she'd feel if a friend told her she was attracted to her?
You shd be able to tell from her response whether or not she's interested. Good luck with it ... it can be a test of the friendship but if you're real friends it won't matter, unless you're gonna be devastated if she doesn't reciprocate yr feelings
If you like her, go for it. Don't worry over labels and closets, just follow your heart. That's what I did, I wasn't technically out of the closet when I asked my first girlfriend out. I just knew she was ok with dating girls, and though I liked guys, I really, really liked her. So instead of worrying over am I gay am I bi, I need come out of closet, etc, I just went up to her at a block party and told her she was cute and is she seeing anyone. Then I had a girlfriend. Its much more liberating to forget numbers and labels and just accept that you like whoever, and follow your heart :) don't force yourself in a mold, just hit her up if ya like her :)
I think it's about the person u like not the sex of that person. Talk to them.
homosexuality is just a chemical imbalance and / or a mental illness / personality disorder.
Well, simple as whatever, tell her how you feel. You're PROBABLY going to lose her as a friend anyway later in life, so just discuss this with her. Discussing your matters or feelings are what friends are for. I NEVER told my best friend (who is a boy, I'm a girl) that I had feelings for him, now, I've moved, and I have no connections with him at all.. sad isn't it? That was 4 years ago.. whoa, 4 years ago wasn't even a long time ago, but A LOT has changed! I hope this helped ;) Whatever you feel, just express it.
Sexual orientation isn't really so simple as bi, gay, and straight. Think of fit as a scale. 10 is straight, 1 is gay. Most people are probably 8-9. You may be anywhere between 6-4.
On a second note, it is difficult to realize and pinpoint your "number". It may take weeks, to even months.
I don't know I haven't experienced it either. Sorry that didn't help you.
I guess we can be confused together.