Is it normal to think women have happier/easier/better lives than men?

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18yo male here;

What I think / have gathered is that; If you place a non-retarded/looking and not "overweight" looking female next to an equivalent male and play out their lives a billion times, each play exploring a different variable, the female will probably die happier than the male most of the time by a fair amount.

I can come up with an entire page's worth of perks to being female:

They get to wear prettier clothes than men

They get to wear skirts

Their male friends give them free stuff; money, food, rides, weed, alcohol

Society thinks you look better and are more intelligent than men (at least this is a "cool" opinion in my school which is often shared by males)

Women can eat, drink, watch, read, play WHATEVER THEY WANT without the risk of being labelled a fag/faggot/ or being beat up by your friends

Society doesn't hate you by default

You get sex right away if you ask for it

Men bend over backwards for you

You don't have to go out of your way to to look masculine in front of your friends

Women have less challenging lives

Women have better orgasms

People sympathize with you more

Society doesn't label you as: hairy, disgusting, boxy, lumpy, etc.

etc.

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Personally, I'd happily use tampons for the rest of my life, give birth and restrict my sex-having to be female. It seems just plain better.

Two side questions:

To the fellas: Do you enjoy being male? does the prospect of being female, or any features of it look tantalizing to you? If there was a pill that would make you wake up female the next day would you take it?

Vice versa to the ladies.

Apologies if I've come across as short-sighted, stereotypical or sexist in any way.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago | pl

    I am a female.
    I have been virtually rejected by the vast majority of women my age that I meet because I am a tomboy. I probably won't have more than one or two good female friends my age until I have children, which will be the only way that I will be able to relate to women my age. It's unfortunate that males are rejected from their gender, but it happens to females too. I had to make some serious behavioral modifications (I had to "lady up") to find the favor in men that I do now.

    A woman's worst enemy is often another woman. They constantly assassinate eachothers self-image, parenting skills etc. Somehow, it means more when a woman says it than when a man says it. We are programmed to be "cooperative", and in the modern context, that can lead to hurting oneself to conform to another female's standards, no matter how air-brushed, how plastic or how painted and polished they are.

    Both sides have their perks, but detriments as well. It's easy to say that the grass is always greener, especially when you will never actually know. I'm not saying that it is harder to be a woman than to be a man or vice-versa, but I am not going to judge someone's misery or hardship in life as being less than another's because of their genitalia. I have seen widows suffer as males and females, the poor suffer as males and females and I truly do believe that suffering is suffering... no matter your race, sex, gender, creed etc. To think that being male or female someone adds to or reduces the validity of the suffering is a thought process that has caused great evil in the world...

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    • bekkiscool
      12 years ago

      Great comment. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    "Society doesn't label you as: hairy, disgusting, boxy, lumpy, etc"

    Dude, women get the way worse end of the stick when it comes to judging looks. Women and men are both so cruel to other women about their looks. Thats why all these eating disorders exist.

    It is quite unfair on them. When a man gets older he's distinguished, when a woman does, shes old. It's retarded.

    And it is easier for a man to get a good job, they also have more options.

    "You get sex right away if you ask for it" for some thats true, but women have a different relationship with sex. When they sleep with someone they form an attachment, something happens in their brain, i read about it once. Thats why if the person they sleep with is a jerk it hurts them more, the other way round and the guy just goes oh well she sucks and goes to the next one.

    I think it's probably harder than you think to be a woman, and socially there is more pressure on them.

    For instance i've heard several women say they wish they were a man. But i've never heard a guy want to be a woman (straight guys)

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    • joybird
      12 years ago

      Women release oxytocin which is known as the 'ownership hormone'. It means that women expect the man to be hers. They don't understand it can be just a shag to a man - who may never return for second helpings.

      I always wanted to be physically strong like the males and not have to rely on anybody - but I met my husband and we complement each other's talents, so I've lightened up a bit.

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    • Saycheese
      12 years ago

      Great answer!

      It ticks me off when guys whine about that girls can get sex right away... trust me not all women. It all has to do with emotions and attractiveness... not gender.

      I just get sick of genders fighting against eachother on this shit.

      I want to wait for the right person and I actually think about the health problems that come a long with it, thats why I wouldn't let a guy in my pants. I actually care about myself. The women that get away with it are normally sluts... I f-ing just don't give a shit. I just wish men would be less easy... but that doesn't happen. I do care about men very much, the good ones anyways. :)

      And the women that treat men like shit are bitches and there are just as many men out there that treat women like crap too. It's a 50/50...

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      • Saycheese
        12 years ago

        I don't like my comment fully. I guess I was a little ticked off at the moment when I typed this. But I ment I wouldn't just let any guy in my pants.

        And I ment that I really do care about the consequences that may come of it health wise by physical and emotional; it's a risk I don't want to take with any guy.

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    No way! Women have long hair so it takes them longer to get ready each day and they have to wear a garment that men don't wear (a bra) so they have to spend more on clothes and they also aren't encouraged to fart in public (leading to intestinal distress).

    And some other stuff about periods and childbirth and inequality and rape and whatnot.

    Also, they often can't reach jars on a high shelf leading to both jam and chutney-based disappointment and condiment frownings.

    On the other hand, they do get first dibs at any lifeboats. This is largely irrelevant though as women are land-based creatures.

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  • iEatZombies_
    12 years ago

    Women feel pressured into wearing prettier clothes a lot of times.
    Why is wearing a skirt something you envy?
    Usually they get free stuff from guys if the guy thinks it'll give him a shot.
    Society is just trying to make women feel better, because women ask for compliments.
    Women scrutinize other women -constantly- for their tastes -behind each others backs.
    Society hates everyone by default for one reason or another.
    Women seldom just want sex, which is also why men have to work so hard.
    Men often expect you to bend over in return.
    Women have to go out of your way to look feminine.
    Women have different challenges to face than men. That doesn't make it less difficult.
    Women also have a harder time getting off. Sometimes it takes them til almost 30 before their first orgasm.
    The sympathy is fake.
    Society lables women many derogatory remarks.

    Women and men should stop tracing over the line that separates us. We all do our part in sacrificing. Nobody has it better. We're all human.

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  • Wendell
    11 years ago

    You sound like a gay man.
    Most people can tell you that women do not have it easier than men. Be glad you are a man. It's awesome

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  • Airi
    12 years ago

    I'm a girl and I hate it. Way more pressure, have always thought being male is so much easier and u get away with way more behaviour as well as appearance mattering a lot less and the biological ease.I hate being stared at all the time, objectified, expected to not be able to do as much because I'm female, expected to be bad at driving, sport etc but expected to be good at cooking, liking kids etc. i am the opposite i have no interest in girly things and the thought of pregnancy revolts me. We Earn less, have struggled for equality throughout history, religion hates us, we endure biological pain and pressure, not able to be natural or 'gross'. The list could go on! Lol I wish I got sex when I wanted it but i want it more than any man I've been with so thats not true. Too general basically. Also skirts are uncomfortable like most girls clothes.

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    Woman don't have it any better than men... I personally don't like getting hit on by men, we are more physically weak which a man of course can do much more to a woman. I don't even give a shit about getting in a mans pants. We also have to do the work to look nice for both men and women, like shaving, smell good, wear make up and so on... but I don't give a crap about looking nice all the time like most women. Why women get things from men or why I a girl do is because the guys always ask me... I don't need anything from a guy like a gift or a free ride. I want my relationship to be fair I would do as much for him as he does for me. I'm not saying that I would date a loser that does nothing for me though, I wouldn't date him then. I was just saying it more torward the bad side of things.

    Because men are great they helped build society on what it is today. Like ItDuz always says they built everything... the bulidings, roads and so on... The good men are there for women. :) And women need to treat them right too.

    It's truly a 50/50 for both genders. This will always be my opinion.

    Just don't worry about it... I ignore the negative things in society and just go on about my own business, so what if I'm different.

    But I love what NeuroNeptunian said too!

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  • littlemissgiggles
    12 years ago

    Ok, I haven't read the other comments and what I'm about to say has probably already been said multiple times. But I don't care, imma say it anyway.

    You are very, very wrong!!
    Girls have always been of second class to men and we probably always will be. In many places we still make 90cents to a mans dollar for the doing the exact same job.
    And being a girl really isn't all that easy, you should try having blood coming out of your genitals every month or carrying a child inside of you for 9 months and see if you still have the same opinion. Plus us girls are under constant ridicule. Ridicule from the media, bitchiness from other girls and judgement from guys. I'm pretty sure that more eating disorders (such as anorexia) are found in women than men. People expect us to be size zero plastic barbies, when we're only human. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but guys don't get that sort of stuff as much as girls do. I'm not denying that guys go through shit too, everyone does, but I reckon that girls have it the hardest, even if it's only by a bit.

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    The grass is always greener in the other side.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I agree, they live easier than men. They get away with crimes more often, they get harsher punishments for their crimes, etc.
    A man touches a woman's breasts or backside, and he can get prosecuted for sexual harrassment. If a woman does it to a man, it is listed as "other sexual violence"...

    The education system has changed to suit the progression of the woman mind set, while going against the mens.

    Domestic violence is 40% done by women, but you never hear about it.
    A lot of rape by women on men isn't considered rape.

    Custody, the woman will almost always get custody, which could be why so many men commit suicide after divorce.

    A woman can live a life by being pregnant. She can fall pregnant after knowing she has no way to support the child herself, and she'll be given child support from the taxpayers money. A lot of women do this just for money aswell.
    If a woman falls pregnant to a man that doesn't want to be a father in any way, he has 0% choice in that, but is expected to share 50% responsibility.
    Women can have abortions or put children up for adoption to avoid parenthood, but males have it forced on them. Parenthood can ruin someone's future plans if they weren't expecting it. People say to such people "You should of kept it in your pants", but you never hear such remarks when a woman wants an abortion, when she avoids parenthood, she is allowed, and it's seen as "poor woman", not "what a deadbeat mother". If there is one thing a man can legally force on to a woman in which she has no control of stopping, that ruins her future plans, then tell me.

    "Equaliity" in itself is an ironic statement. Men have done far more for society/civilization than women, they arethe ones advancing most of technology, repaitring and building new buildings, etc.
    The irony of it is that while men have done more (as a gender), they are forced to say they're equal to the group that hasn't done as much. It's not equal to call two groups equal when one of the groups is more capable to invent create, and progress faster than the other group, that's treating them equally, that doesn't make it equality.
    (That doesn't mean I expect to be treated as the men that done great. I'm speaking about the gender as a group, not as individuals)

    A lot of people see males as "potential criminals" even before they leave the womb.

    Females can go on national TV and mock and make fun of a man that got mutilated for his penis getting cut off for doing nothing more than asking for a divorce. If a man done it, you would be demanding they be fired from the show.
    They laugh at such a man, but then frown upon when things like that happen to women in places like Iran.

    Man in pain today is molded in to "comedy", women in pain is molded as a tragedy.

    Society raises their males as being the victimizers, never the victims, but do the opposite for females.

    I like to stay a man, I would like to because I like being in the same gender as the ones that has built so many civilizations.

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    • iEatZombies_
      12 years ago

      I agree with a lot of what you said, but I do think some of the facts you state have more to them than meets the eye. I whole-heartedly agree that women are unfair about the entire pregnancy and children ordeal. Men get virtually no say-so where their own children are concerned and that's completely unfair. Women also get lesser punishments in the judicial system. Black men are most targeted, even though statistics state equality in most crimes.
      Where I cannot completely agree is when you state women didn't do as much for civilizations. You are right about that, but what you should take into consideration is that they weren't allowed to do much of anything until recently. Now that they can, most contribute equally, in many different ways.
      Women and men do their part equally in destruction and in sacrifice. Women get away with more and men let them.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Yes, they contribute to society as it is, no doubt. What I meant is that more men are contributing to the evolution of our society. I should of made that more clear.

        I dissagree with the destruction and in sacrifice part. Men are the ones that cause most negatives in our world (most criminals are men), but their good outdoes their evil (the ones that invented and created). In sacrifice I would still have to dissagree. Far more men than women have died in the work place due to being given the more dangerous parts of the job. And even in the military, women are allowed to sign up, but there are not nearly as much as male soldiers.

        As for the black inequality, I agree. It is a shame.

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        • iEatZombies_
          12 years ago

          I absolutely also agree about workforce. Women sucker up not taking physical risk, though they are more than capable. I meant to say they sacrifice in other ways. Like helping with the nurturing side of society that men can't get to, etc. They certainly have destroyed in emotional ways that most men wouldn't have bothered with. Physically, women don't contribute much, but emotionally they contributed immensely, and so it balances. In my opinion.

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    • dragonflyyy
      12 years ago

      I understand exactly what perspective you are looking at, and I agree to a small degree. Women get sexually harassed in aggressive mannors, whereas men are seldom able to be approached in such mannor by a woman and when they are they usually enjoy it. So the small cases where men are actually being sexually harassed those DO get taken care of with equal force so you are wrong in that aspect, most men just invite it though. Yes domestic violence is 40% done by women, 60% still being MEN, and when a woman tries to rape a man, how does he get it up if he's not into it? Those who do rape by the few means to get a man up unwillingly, are proescuted as well.

      On your next point, skullbrain, YES women are looked at as pieces of s**t for abortion. They can't do anything about it once they're knocked up though, aside from abortion where as the daddy can just dip like so many of you kind gentleman do. Now days, if a man doesn't want the child to go on adoption he has every right to prevent it. Don't act like girls don't get told they shouldn't have "left it in their pants." How many single mothers are looked down upon as sluts? Even more of them are sneered at for being deadbeat moms when they avoid parenthood. Just because you have chosen to associate with the part of society that chooses to bypass that isn't a reason to belittle the female gender. Not once have I ever heard unborn boys to be considered "potential criminals," not on tv, not in newspapers or magazines or even jail houses or any of the above, so go ahead and shove that one right back up your a**.

      The women who go on national TV and mock men for any reason whatsoever are the trash of our species, don't act like men don't have that scum in their gender pool either.

      A man in tears is more heartwrenching than a woman in tears. Any human with a heart can tell you that because women are emotional, we cry because we're happy or we're sad or we're excited or overwhelmed. When a man cries on the other hand, it brings empathy out of us and compassion, it is most definately not something of humor. We are on equal playing fields.

      Men have it simplier in the essence that they can knock up a girl and then just ditch, we can't just walk away from our womb sorry to break it to you.

      Women are also oppressed because of bullheaded morons like you who actually think we haven't contributed as much to our technology and such!? There are MANY women in history who contributed and got their "sunshine" and credit stolen by a greedy man who thinks women are inferior and shouldn't be recognized for their worth. Only up until recently are we actually acknowledged for our contributions so thank you for proving a point on how much harder women have to work to even get a pat on the back you cold hearded bastard.

      Even the women who are fully capable of doing a "man's" work gets rejected because of sexism so for you to try to say we don't do as much is just proving my point that MEN still opress women because of macho mentality.

      Years back maybe men would have had it more difficult having to be the provider and whatnot but now a days women are expected to take on that same roll as provider as well as raise the children clean the house do the cooking and "please" the man, so even on that note women have it more difficult. Thats excluding the expectation of beauty that is forced upon as since birth.

      You are a pitiful excuse of the human race, ItDuz. Open your mind.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Sexual harrassment against males happen all the time, it just isn't considered sexual abuse, because like you said, they are expected to "like it". Do you know how many men don't come forward because of that alone? That they should of "enjoyed it"? A lot. Do you know that domestic violence is 40% female on male, that's nearly half, but you never hear about such things.
        They do get taken care of do they? Are you familiar with the case when three 8th grader females force stripped a 6th grade boy? He was screaming, telling them to stop, shouting for him mother to help them, but they continued and successfully striped the boy in public. The whole incident got recorded as "just some girls playing a prank". Now tell me, what would of happened if three older boys done that to a younger girl? My point exactly...Oh, did I miss the part when it was recorded? Yes, one of the girls was recording it happen aswell, and even with video evidence, they were ot charged. Sono, they don't get taken care of. Actually, the percentage of sexual harrassments not taken seriously is higher when males are the victims than it is when women are the victims.
        But I guess because you give in to this "men are the victimizers" media that what is said on TV must be truth, right?

        Wow, what? Are you serious? "If men get an erection, they must want to be raped...What? They're procecuted are they? You mean like if an adult female teacher has sexual relations with a fourteen yearold student? Oh, I forgot; Debra Levave. She got away with being a pedophile, no jail time.

        Not by all. Not all women are looked at it as if it's bad, and the majority believe that a woman has the choice or not, and if you don't believe me, look up the polls that have been on this site that will show you that. Yes, a lot of people dissagree with it, but the majority agree that abortion is allowed. They can just dip? So, women are allowed to avoid their responsibility of parenthood by abortion, but the male isn't allowed to avoid theirs? Great logic, the feminist mind that thinks such a thing is equality. Also, the fact is that they aren't allowed to do that, they either have to pay child support or be part of the child's life, where as with abortions they don't have to worry about any of that.

        Actually, not all states do that, a lot of states don't require a man's say when it comes to putting a child up for adoption. Do some research before acting like you know what you're talking about.

        Women don't get nearly as much harrassment for avoiding their responsibilities as a mother as much as men do, usually when it was the woman wanting a child and the father not wanting the child, so he gets ridiculed for not taking responsibility of the child he never wanted, where as a woman having an abortion is "demonstrating her rights, a strong woman, etc".

        No, single mothers aren't "looked down upon", they are seen as "strong women" to raise children all on their own. Where the hell do you live, Mars? So far everything you have said is the opposite of what actually happens in society. When they avoid parenthood? What? They are not sneered at for it, they are seen as "independant women". Don't even try pretend that women get negative attention by the majority for having abortions.
        Really? Google it, you'll see that many people say such things about unborned children. So how about you do some research and then come back with a witty statsement like "shove it up your ass", because without actually doing any research, you're just making a fool of yourself.

        Did I say men don't have scum in their gender? No. I was stating that women get away with it, on national television. Feel free to prove me wrong that there is a man to do anything close to mocking a mutilated woman. That wasn't sarcasm, I actually want you to search for such a thing and post it here.

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          When men cry? Are you kidding me? I've seen so many men get ridiculed for crying, by females specificly, so don't say that it is "heartwrecking" as if all females, or even most are like that.

          "Sorry to break it to you", but you can have abortions, and males aren't allowed to avoid responsibility of their child, they either have to take care of it or pay for it, where as a woman can just get rid of the responsibility. "sorry to break it to you". It's much harder for males to rid of parenthood responsibility than it is for females, mainly because the law allows women to get rid of responsibility and not men.

          That isn't oprression, that is facts, women haven't contributed to science, engineering, and all other types of inventions as much as men, that's not an opinion, that is fact. That is another thing women do, they call it "oppression", when a man states a fact that isn't in the female gender's favour.

          Did I say women haven't contributed? No, I said women haven't contributed as much.
          And oh my God, here comes the feminist propaganda. Where did this information come from? That men stole credit from women? Where? Look back far enough, and you'll see that there is no actual facts that state such things, only opinions that have started by feminists.

          Women aren't capable of doing "man's work" as much as men because "man's work" involves physical strength, which men are better at. Hey, if you want a firewoman trying to bust down a door ina house fire with you on the other side but can't because she lacks the physical strength to do so, then you go ahead, but I would much rather put my hands in the person that has the traits best to do the job. And in actual fact, women are more likely to be hired because they're women, in fear of being sued for sexism. That's right, if a man is more qualified than a woman, let's say in the firebragade, but there are far more men than women, the woman will be hired, simply so the boss can dodge being made out to be sexist.

          Not to mention, by hiring a woman, you risk having to pay her while she isn't working for being pregnant, where as males don't have that problem, and even though that's a good reason, it'#s deemed as "sexist".

          I'm not saying women don't contribut to society, I'm saying they don't contribute as much at progressing society, two different things.

          You're a feminist, I can just tell. What woman in today's world is expected to have children, work, please her man, clean, cook, etc. Please, give me an example of this, because I am yet to see a woman have to do all those things by herself.

          Expectation of beauty? Here we go again. You do realize that men also have to do this? Not only that, but they have to work harder for their beauty, they have to gain muscle, where as women only have to lose weight, and that's not even the man's fault. Nobody is making them have to be beautiful, they are doing it themselves to feel sexually attractive to males, they aren't forced to be beautiful for men, they chose to be.

          Judging by your view of the "human race", I wouldgladly be the pityful one from your "human race", but as for the actual human race and the actual things that happen in the real human race, you are nothing more than a raging feminist with no idea on society, the real one.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      They don't get harsher punishment like men for their crimes*

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  • citrusgum17
    12 years ago

    If your a guy, you couldn't possibly understand all the crap girls go through. For every drawback there is for a guy there is a different one for a girl. Just think about it

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  • jolly
    12 years ago

    50 %

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  • Corleone
    12 years ago

    No one has ever been both so we can't be sure.

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  • iEatZombies_
    12 years ago

    Why hasn't ItDuz commented on this story yet?

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I have.

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      • iEatZombies_
        12 years ago

        I always look forward to your opinions. =)

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Cramps, child birth, mood swings, emotional...eh. I'd rather have my own penis to diddle.

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  • bekkiscool
    12 years ago

    For attractive girls, MAYBE, but the word 'attractive' and how people see others is completely and totally subjective (so get off my lips about hanging onto my every word). Otherwise, it's a dog eat dog world. No two people go through the same 'trips' in life. Experiences are never the same. Similar, but never the same.

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  • narutothesouleater
    12 years ago

    I am a guy and i have thought about being female, more then average. So to answer your question yes i would take that pill.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Personally, I enjoy being male. However, being a girl for week does sound fun.

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    • Saycheese
      12 years ago

      You probably would change your mind after just one day. lol

      It sucks being more emotional... although I truely don't know what the emotions of a guy are like. We should switch and see what the difference is like.

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      • Anime7
        12 years ago

        Actually when I was a kid people use to call me tomgirl. I express my emotions a lot actually, I'm just more direct with them is all. I enjoy talking to people and understanding how they think. I'm a self-called sociologist. My friends and I actually enjoy telling each other everything. We each express our emotions. In the traditional sense, I am not like a male because I express my emotions. I don't let them control my logic, by I do open up to others very easily, as long as they are willing to hear me out. Of course I have my male qualities. One of my female friends actually on occasions says "you're such a guy," in a friendly way of course.

        I think being a girl would actually be very interesting. Like I said, I like exploring the mentality of others. Being a girl would give me the opportunity to truly understand the mentality of an "average" female. I have talked to girls before, but being the person that I am, not many have openly expressed themselves to me. I imagine being a girl as having it's ups and downs. I actually want to feel some of the pain of pms, I want to see if it's difficult to adapt to that. Also, as ItDuz stated, I want to experience some of the advantages that come with being a girl. Furthermore, I want to see the reaction that people would give me when I act like a myself but as a girl. I'd say I'm a nice person, but I want to personally experience how the genders view a nice girl. Of course, I'm straight but the admiration would be interesting to experience. This last factor may be off putting but, and I'm sorry if the mental image is disturbing, masturbation as a female does have my curiosity peaked. The female orgasm is 10x better than the male, I want to see how much better.

        If in the course of my explanation I have creeped you out or seemed odd, I'm sorry. I just want to see the world from a new perspective.

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        • Saycheese
          12 years ago

          Oh no worries... it is really fascinating on how the two genders mind and body work differently. I personally find psychology rather interesting.

          Also being a nice girl especially around men you certainly get a lot of men interested in you... Which I know it doesn't happen as much vice-versa. You always have to be the bad boy, especially in the younger years. Which I personally don't get myself.

          Oh also that really is how our family is we have had to express our feelings more towards each other considering of what we've all had to go through and still have to. The sad part I really didn't start talking to my older brother about feelings and love till not too long ago and I'm in my 20's. I guess I always felt kind of odd if I would say something to him about it since he is my brother, a male. ha.

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            I dont know, I say being a guy I would definitely be curious about what its like to be a girl. Me and a friend of mine, very beautiful girl, did an experiment, it was mostly my idea to get an idea of being a women and dating. We set up a fake dating account using her pics, I basically did it, she just gave me the pics. And some of the responses we got were just ridiculous. Some very crazy perverted people out there. In that respect I wouldnt enjoy being a girl, a guy doesnt really have to worry about that. But other then some emotions, cramps, and child birth (which isnt even a given) I would say women probably have it easier then men.

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            • Saycheese
              12 years ago

              So what is your opinion on why women have it easier exactly? And no I'm not saying you are wrong on your opinion, I just believe there is a balance between the two genders, no gender has it easier than the other.

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          • Anime7
            12 years ago

            I'm very interested in the male attention actually, but I would like being chased after for being nice. Like I said, I'm a straight male but the admiration would be interesting to observe. I don't really know much about women and I think being one would just be interesting.

            Also, I'm glad that you and your brother are becoming closer. It's always great to have that person you can count on to listen when you need it.

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            • Saycheese
              12 years ago

              Yeah... same here.

              But thanks! It seems like almost for everybody that is already kind of close to their family, when ever they go to college all the sudden they are closer from being away... then you want to be home to see your family. Thats how it was for me for sure... but of course it certainly helps with living on your own too.

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  • likesototallyomg
    12 years ago

    I love being a female (don't get me wrong), but the society puts so much pressure on women to look good. And all the points you listed mostly only apply to the pretty ones.

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    • Anime7
      12 years ago

      Upon reflection, I completely agree.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    12 years ago

    Yes if I could turn into a beautiful girl I would without hesitation. Absolutely love the free food/rides/alcohol/etc part and not have to compete with males for resources and sex. I'm very lazy and girls get away with it while male laziness is despised by society. Girls hate lazy men because they want us to work so they don't have to. I never chose to be lazy but my body can't take physical effort and I hate sports.

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    • dragonflyyy
      12 years ago

      Not necessarily, very few women actually get free anything and the ones who do are usually cold hearted and just using the men. But there is also a high amount of young attractive men who take advantage of wealthy older women and get the same amount of free stuff. Girl's hate lazy men because we have to work hard for what we get and we won't tolerate a bum, not the other way around. ;)

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals
        12 years ago

        Bur women have the choice to not work, men don't.

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