Is it normal to think this way...

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Hello,

I recently met a girl that i'm very interested in and she shows interest in me as well. i'm new to the city i'm in at the moment and i've been spending quite a bit of time with this girl. She's smart, funny, down to earth, easy going, beautiful, has a smile that can melt icebergs...i can go on an on.

A few days ago, we had a movie night with a couple friends. One of our friends is a lesbian. I'll call her Jane for privacy. Anyway, the girl i'm seeing seemed very comfortable with Jane to the point they were somewhat cuddling. I have to admit that it bothered me because i know that Jane is lesbian and I don't really know what her intentions are. I tried raising the point the other day, but i don't want to make the girl i'm seeing uncomfortable. we're not exclusive and she has told me that she is not gay. I guess my question is, is it normal for me to be jealous when i see them together? Is it normal for me to think that there is something more than just friendship between them? i have a feeling they might have kissed. I know that doesn't automatically make one gay, but it does bother me. Anyway, I appreciate your input.

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  • MrJP
    12 years ago

    Yeah this has kinda happened to me but yeah chill out, i think its really important to trust in the girl you know

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I cant stand when girls think its ok to cheat if its with another girl. They can get away with it a lot of the time cause guys think its hot but it really makes me sad.

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  • ellaisrad
    13 years ago

    chill out dude.

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  • Jennalee
    14 years ago

    Its tottaly normal and I know how you feel cause I was once in your shoes,kind of a similar story.are you dating this girl cause then you got a problem.

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    I don't think it should bother you TOO much but I can see why it would make you wonder. She is probably just very close with her friend and I think it's cool that she is so comfortable with her own sexuality.

    However...if you two aren't exclusive, you're right to question this kind of thing. I can't imagine that she would act that way so blatantly in front of you if it was something you should worry about.

    But who knows, maybe she's bi, and hellooooo threesome? Right, right?

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    • riodejaneiro
      14 years ago

      Jenn118584....I guess I just want another perspective in regards to whether or not I'm over analyzing the situation. I don't think I'm over reacting; I just want to know what to make of it. Again, we're not exclusive but we have been spending a lot of time together. She tells me she enjoys my company and needless to say that we get a long great. I know she's free to do whatever she wants, I just wish that she would tell me if there is anything going on with Jane. At first I thought it would be great to have a bisexual girlfriend per se, now I don't know if I could manage that. Thanks for the input.

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