Is it normal to think this??

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I'm 21, never had a boyfriend, was always shy and bullied and had awful confidence, I got to 16 and would worry because I knew I wouldn't be a party goer.. Anyway that passed and I accepted myself for me. I've been trying to get out more do plenty of things to meet new people but it's just I can't find anyone. The boys I like aren't interested, the ones who like me I don't like. A lot of boys only want to send pictures of there dicks :/ I do want to find someone but I'm scared I won't, another thing I am scared of is sex.. Around guys I just I am very nervous until I get to know them, but thinking about sex and how nervous and tense ill be just bugs me a lot, I want to get it out of the way so badly.. But I can't :(
Is this normal?

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Based on 19 votes (16 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If you stop thinking and pressuring yourself about all this, you might find it will all work itself out just fine. Stop looking at guys as sex partners and just try to find a few who are fun to be with and interesting to talk to. Go out with him/them and just enjoy yourself; no pressure. In time things will develop and you'll be comfortable, after all, this sex thing has been going on for quite some time.

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