Is it normal to think that your younger sister is "bad " ?

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Is it normal to think that your younger sister is "Bad" ? . I think my 20 year old siter is bad , she has tattos and piercings , she really disrespects my mom ,and she is very self-centered and selfish . I love her because she is my sister and she does have a good side , like she cares about Animals and causes on facebook , she brings gifts for my mother , she asks me if i want to go with her shopping or to drink something , but most of the time she is self centered , agressive , Strong , a kinda of a rebel , she wants to do whatever she wants even when my mother disagrees and she does whatever she wants, she only want her opinion and no one elses , she fights with my older sister and is agressive towards her , she' agressive towards me as well .

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    It doesn't sound like she's bad, it just sounds like she has chosen her own path and is adamant about it. Many young adults are self centered, that's a product of the culture we live in and generally people grow out of it as they get out and see more of the world.

    I don't know enough of the story, but I'm guessing your mother frequently disagrees with what she does? That could very well be the reason for the aggression, if she feels like her decisions aren't being respected by the family.

    This is from the perspective of another red sheep, so to speak. There's me and my aunt, and we're the freaks of the family. ;P

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  • Going_Gone
    11 years ago

    Have an open mind. Just because your sister is doing things differently than you, it does not mean that she is bad. Be supportive and understanding without trying to control her. Please don't let this ruin your sisterly relationship with her. My older sister became convinced that I was "bad" because I'm so different from her and nothing will ever change her perception of me, even though we are both older now and have each accomplished a lot in our lives. I wish she could be proud of me like I am of her, but she still thinks I'm a lost, misguided rebel. Sigh!

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Also, does she have a mood disorder?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I think it's more of a personality disorder like borderline personality disorder or Narcissistic personality disorder .

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Don't judge her because of her piercings and tattoos. So what if she's rebellious? She's a adult, it's her life. Also, not everyone gets along with their parents.

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