Is it normal to think that someone is not your friend ?

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So there's this girl I know.We sit together with a group a friends everyday to eat lunch but I don't think that we are actually friends.You see I just get this vibe from her that she doesn't actually care about what I'm saying even though I'm answering a question she asked me herself.

And those question she asks me?They are always the same.Even though I've known her for almost 5 years."Where were you born?How old are you?Why don't you do something with your hair?".

She also makes unfunny jokes about oreos."oh put our hands together!Like this!". Since I'm black and she's white.She has no sense of personal space.That annoyed me but I didn't really get upset about it.What really gets me annoyed is when she asks me one of her pointless questions,and she can't even keep a straight face.I pisses me off not being taken seriously.

At lunch today she started twittering with another friend of mine.She whispered something to her and they started giggling and my friend told that what she said was mean.When I asked her about what she was whispering about,she told me "your hair looks like a dirty shit rag."

I was offended.I mean, earlier we were all dissing each other playfully and I called her disses lame,so it's not like I don't know where might have come from. But nobody else said anything that offensive.

Tl;Dr
Am I being too sensitive?or is this "friend" really a stupid bitch?

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  • Faceless
    11 years ago

    Punch her out.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    You can't expect everyone to be your friend.That's not how life works,next time she says something negative about you,punch her in the damn mouth-just make sure it's off of school property if you do so.If you can't handle negative remarks while you're still in school,what'sgonna happen when you gotta get your ass in the workforce?

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    Stupid bitch.

    It sounds like your taking too much of her shit, and she's getting real comfortable dishing it. So I suggest next time she says something along the lines of the dirty-shit-rag comment, you look at her in the eye and say something equally offensive. Hurt her feelings. Make people laugh at her. Also, she IS implying your a fucking idiot by asking you those same questions.

    Be mean. She's doing it. You do it, too.

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    • BeautyBodyBrains
      11 years ago

      Agreed!

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  • BeautyBodyBrains
    11 years ago

    I dont mean to sound funny but she seems to talk about your hair an awful lot. Maybe that should tell you something. A real friend would suggest doing your hair or something, not make fun of you.

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  • BeautyBodyBrains
    11 years ago

    Put that bitch in her place and do your hair so they can't say anything negative.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Fuck her in the nose.

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  • Bmitch32
    11 years ago

    The majority of girls her age are insecure so just start saying things about her weight or appearance and give her a taste of her own medicine.

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago

    I agree the "dirty shit rag" part was mean. The oreo thing just sounds silly lol..anyway if she doesn't listen to what you have to say or take you seriously, she's not really your friend. Have you tried looking for other people to sit with?

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  • theytookthisone
    11 years ago

    Sounds like a racist. Just ignore her or be impersonal towards her and focus on the people that arent going to be bigoted like that towards you

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    Typical highschool drama bullshit it sounds like to me...

    She's not really your friend.

    Find new friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    she sounds toxic

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    ...but your hair does look like a dirty shit rag!

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