Is it normal to think that i'm too complicated for anyone?

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I've never had bf/dated. I feel like I'm too complicated for any guy, that they wouldn't enjoy being with me. So, why bother? I'm very insecure, I have a hard time opening up and trusting. I feel like no one understands me or ever will. I'm afraid I might end up like Marilyn Monroe-sad, depressed, lonely and suicidal, with no one in the end.Is it normal to think like this?

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Based on 52 votes (38 yes)
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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Some men specifically like complicated women. A challenge, I guess.

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  • CvermillionE
    11 years ago

    I depends on the people you hang around. I dont like having a girlfriend baecause almost all of the girls in my generation are sluty and or dumb. What really bothered me about school was that most of the kids were idiots and they would say i was weird and dumb and then 10 minutes later cheat off of my test. So i started homeschooling a year ago and i have been doing alot better.

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  • popsy123
    11 years ago

    Hiii...

    its normal feeling...
    even i feel am too complicated for guys!
    but really if u want a good guy ever simlify urself....
    just be simple n relaxed ..any guy wud love u then ..they don want a person who taxes them emotionally or is a riddle them..any guy wud prefer a simple /uncomplicated gal!!!

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    Complexity can be, in it's own way, quite attractive. Personalities which aren't "normal" can be interesting and rewarding to get to know, even if they're not for everyone :P

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  • Abby13
    11 years ago

    No one is totally together, and you have as much to offer any guy as any other girl!
    You are probably a really interesting girl, and guys like girls who keep them jumping.
    You totally deserve a great guy who can keep up with you!! We all have baggage and complications, and girls who dont are stuck up high maintenance and they dont want girls like that anyways (not long term, anyways...)
    I know too many girls who think like this, but the question should be Can they make you happy!

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  • Introvert
    11 years ago

    This is of course completely normal and I think that many people tend to think of themselves as too complicated for some period if time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    People often see themselves as they wish to be, rather than they actually are. I'm not saying you aren't what you claim you are but that perception is deceptive by nature.

    Don't let yourself be consumed with fear. Will worrying about this add a single day to your life?

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