Is it normal to think that i'm smarter than most people?
Starting from when I first went to school, I was way smarter than the other kids and got the highest mark in both Math and English. Eventually, I realised that I could do very little work, skip school and still do fine. I was accepted into what was then the hardest degree course at one of the top universities in my country. I studied hard and got second-top student in first year, and top student in fourth year. The guy who beat me in first year did less study than me, so I knew he was smarter than me. Nobody else seemed to be smarter than me, however. When I graduated from college, the university put my photo on the cover of the newspaper because I did so well. I was offered a scholarship to do a PhD at Cambridge University in the UK but I was burnt out so I passed on it, which I now regret.
I read a lot and remember almost everything I read so I have a huge general knowledge. I've noticed that only a couple of people I've met share this characteristic.
I've also noticed that virtually all people think they're smart, at least in the ways that really matter like "common sense". They are biased by their ego and the limitations of their own mind in assessing their own mind. I've met extraordinarily stupid people who think they're very smart. There is a phenomenon that was discovered at Cornell University in 1988 called the Dunning-Kruger effect which can be described as "the less you know about something, the more you think you know". Gamblers who lose heaps of money in casinos tend to think they are experts in their game of choice even though they don't even know the house edge of the game in question or understand the mathematics behind why they've lost so much money. They just think it's bad luck that will eventually come around and they are very superstitious, just like stone-age man was.
I have also noticed that a lot of folks make better life decisions and get along better with other people in general than I do. There have been times in my life where I have been incredibly unhappy so my smartness is an intellectual capability rather than "emotional intelligence" which is more useful if you want a happy, successful life.
Plenty of people don't like being around folks who are noticeably smarter than they are. Although I can be humble, I can also be pretty arrogant sometimes.
Is it normal that I think that I'm smarter than most people, or am I a conceited, arrogant egomaniac?