Is it normal to think that he's a little -too- perfect?

Theres this guy. He's actually my boyfriend as of a few weeks ago, But we had been friends with benifits before he finally confessed that his feelings for me had grown durring our time together.
I love everything about him. The way he makes me laugh, how strikingly handsome he is, The way he is good at everything. He's just so well-rounded. And so perfect. But every time I lay next to him, or think about him, I get so sad.. I don't want him to leave me. I think, why is he even with me? I'm nothing compaired to him. He's all muscle and I'm not. I'm not the supermodel he should be dating. He's too perfect for me.
Is it normal to think that way?

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  • Quiblum

    Totally normal. You have too little self-confidence, and if you ask him, he'll tell you the same thing. But yeah, on the note of him being "too" perfect, he might be hiding something too. Perfect people always have something to hide.

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  • I bet he thinks the same thing...

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  • pambambam

    Well in this case just be who you've been all along. Don't show you're insecure and relax whatever happens. Happens.

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  • i feel this way aswell... my fiance is so great to me in many ways... he tould me hw never felt this way b4 bout anyone he has ever been with... we havent had sex so i know he isnt using me... im just scared im not worth of love from anyone mostly him... ive done some bad stuff in my life.... i just wana b with him 4ever... i love him and it sounds like u love the guy ur wirh aswell... we both need to work on our self esteem!

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  • chatter289

    I use to feel like that too. Honestly, if you feel like that about yourself start going gym, tone yourself up, do things to build YOUR self esteem. Make a new you, don't do it for him do it for you and because you want too. No one is perfect, not even him. Whatis perfect is love, and it can make you do/think so many things.

    He is with you because he loves you and this guy, who by the way was your friend with benefit, cast aside the benefit side just so he can be with you. I would think that most guys love having friends with benefits because they don't have to deal with the relationship, the emotions and everything else relationships have. Obviously he has set that aside because he genuinely cares about you a whole lot more than sex and that is something great I think.

    Remember, how you feel about yourself will reflect in the relationship. He fell in love with the girl who was condiment and couldn't care about how she was, don't change now. If you do want to change do it because you want too and because you want something new and fresh. Do something daring, from having long hair cut it, from being black hair go to caramel blonde or vice versa. Do a change for you so you can build your self esteem. New relationship, a better u :)

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  • Mozart

    Normal. You think the world of him, and I'm sure he feels the same way. I'm glad you found the perfect person for you. A lot of people would kill for that haha. I know how you feel though, I sometimes think the same way. But we need to let go of our insecurities and let ourselves be happy.

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  • Ronan

    It's so normal, it's part of being In love. Enjoy it, and about self confidence. And Joybird is right, chances are that when you see yourself As being A's perfect, or as good as your boyfriend, he will see you that Way too.

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  • joybird

    None of us are perfect so don't panic. You have obviously got qualities that he loves coz he has chosen you over others.

    Change this attitude or he'll treat you like crap. Believe that he's the one lucky to have you!

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