Is it normal to think that everyone's actually a little bit bisexual?

I'm bi/pan/demi sexual or whatever, and I've always kind of wondered what it's like to be straight or gay.

There's so many great people out there, I really don't understand why or how you would limit yourself by gender. Now obviously I do think some people are more leaning straight or gay that others... But.. I still get the impression that everyone's always got that tiniest bit of bi in them, waiting for the right person that is.

I just don't get it- Underneath, men and women can be very very similar anyway in terms of personality. So unless you're purely attracted to people purely for their looks, I just don't really understand the point of it all.

I tend to consider 100% straight or gay people as having a bit of a mental block, or just having never come across the right person yet.

What do you think? Am I just being ignorant because I'm pan and can't understand what it's like?

OR might there actually be some truth in my suggestion?

I'm open to everyone's thoughts so please drop a message! ^_^

Voting Results
66% Normal
Based on 76 votes (50 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 22 )
  • Unimportant

    I am a man and I've never been attracted to another man, neither romantically nor sexually. There is exactly 0,00 bisexuality in me.

    It is normal to wonder whether everyone is a little bi. However, the answer is no, not everyone is.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • KeddersPrincess

    It sounds to me like you are referring to romantic wise not so much sexual. Wanting to be with someone but not on a sexual level is different than being sexually attracted to someone. You have romantic attraction and sexual attraction. You can be romantically attracted to someone without be sexually attracted to them and vice-versa.

    I don't think that everyone is bisexual because there are lot of different sexualities, and some people just aren't sexually attracted to one gender or both regardless of their personalities and, like wise, I suppose we don't all feel romantic attraction either and that's where you have people who consider themselves aromantic.

    Sexuality can be very complicated. It seems to me like you're taking your own point of view and assuming others must feel the same way (kind of like I don't understand how anyone can dislike chocolate). I don't think that they have a mental blockage or they haven't met the right person. I think they just feel differently than you.

    There's lots of different orientations:

    bisexual, homosexual, heterosexual, pansexual, asexaul homoromantic, hereromantic, panromantic, aromatic, lithromantic, grey asexual, heteromantic homosexual, homoromantic asexual, heteromatic asexual, aromantic asexual, aromantic pansexual, hereromantic asexual, and the list goes on...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • You're most likely right! I still find it hard to understand but I guess like you said, it's just as with the chocolate thing, and you just gotta accept that people are into different things!

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • GreyWulfen

    I wouldn't say everyone with no exception, but certainly most people (90-95%) are bisexual to some extent.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • peterr

      I'm still waiting for my blowjob. Nice 7 in cut cock...

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • thegypsysailor

    Weren't we ALL female, at some point, in the womb?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Agirlsbestfriend.

      Just you.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Legion

    It's normal to take a personality trait about yourself and compare it to others , and yes, it can be hard to try and unlearn the tendency to project ourselves onto others, to assume most people share a trait, sometimes, it can even be disheartening if many don't share that trait, personally, over the years, I have had to unlearn many things I have assumed about others.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • mokuton

    i am a man and i have never been attracted to another man in any sexual manner. But i think some women has bisexual tendencies because of what my girl friend says sometimes. Very often when im with her she will say things like how much great it would feel to be with another woman. Just last night while i was licking her boobs she said she wanted to lick another girls boobs and laughed. I said we could do it together and she can suck on one boob and ill suck on the other. But she said she dosent want to share me with anyone and she only wants to do it alone.
    Since she usually says things like that i think she has some kind of bisexual tendencies. Dont know for sure bro but im certain that i dont have any feelings for another man.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Bigzbee

    I believe every man wonders and every woman wonders, that just makes them curious... I'm bi myself and wonder about it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • ScooterNyne

    I personally think that, indeed, everyone is a little bisexual. But my reasoning and views are completely different than yours.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • I'd be interested to hear your reasoning if you'd be happy to share? :3

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • ScooterNyne

        Well I just don't agree with "limiting yourself" or "mental blocks". Everyone is made different. And everyone is going to have their own preference. I've had feelings for other men before though I consider myself a straight male. And, naturally, I think we are all emotionally bisexual. But this doesn't always translate to a romantic/sexual context.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
          -
        • By definition, bisexuality absolutely translates to sexual or romantic attraction. The word itself implies sexuality.

          For so long, narrow-minded fundamentalists subscribed to, and forced upon society the concept that everyone is born heterosexual; condemning homosexual contact as an act of perversion.

          ...but now...

          I am absolutely not attracted to men. Very few things would turn me off quicker than a deep voice, facial razor stubble, a v-shaped figure, or any other masculine trait. Does that make me a sexual deviant?

          Sorry...I'm not buying it.

          I know this comes across more rash than I intend. I don't mean it to. I don't know any other way to put it. There really is such a thing as heterosexual. There really are people who are not at all attracted to their same gender...and that's not weird. I'm getting a little worn out defending my heterosexuality.

          I've always been an advocate for gay rights. Nobody has a right to tell consenting adults where to seek romantic affection.

          With an apology for the pun...that goes both ways.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
            -
          • ScooterNyne

            I have to agree with you. I think the point I was trying to convey and perhaps failed to, was the idea of bi-curiosity. People can be straight, like myself, but perhaps still wonder and be curious about their feelings for the same sex and how far those feelings really could go. Mine never reached any sexual level so that's why I know I am heterosexual. But the experience made me wonder if that all people have the innate urge to "test" their sexuality with bi-curious behaviors in order to reassure themselves of who they are.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
              -
            • peterr

              My cock awaits you! 7 inch cut Canadian

              Comment Hidden ( show )
      • RomeoDeMontague

        No.. Just because you are in denial about your sexuality does not mean we are all on board with you. So leave us alone and accept who you are.

        I really find it annoying when people say "I think everyone BI because IM BI". Just because someone is Christian does not mean we are all christian, being atheist does not mean we are all atheist, liking fish does not mean we all like fish, and being bi does not mean EVERYONE IS BI.

        That is your choice so go fuck yourself. WE HAVE A RIGHT TO CHOOSE! YOU CANT DICTATE OUR SEXUALITY!

        Comment Hidden ( show )
          -
        • Um. You're coming across as kind of aggressive and defensive here? Calm down, I'm not trying to insult anybody, and I've mentioned that this is just an idea- I'm not saying I'm right, nor am I pushing my thoughts onto anybody, so please chill.

          First off:
          - I am certainly not in denial about my sexuality. xD
          - I not saying everyone has to be bi, I was just explaining a thought that came into my head and was interested to hear other peoples views on that.
          - I'm perfectly accepting if other people are straight or gay. I don't have a problem with it. xD

          I guess it's like someone else mentioned- it's like food. If you love something so much, it can be difficult to understand how someone else can dislike it so much! But that doesn't mean you can't accept that fact they they simply /don't/.

          So please calm the hell down.
          I am not, nor would I want to dictate your sexuality in any way. Okay? !

          Relax! Please!

          Comment Hidden ( show )
  • dom180

    As a person who finds men and women attractive, I find it hard to imagine what it must feel like to discard 50% of potential partners because of one trait. Yet some people, *most* people, do exactly that. I don't understand it, but that's just how they are. Perhaps they're just more choosy than me :P

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • anti-hero

      No offense to you my friend but if you don't like penis, it is a bit of a barrier to cross hahaha

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • dom180

        Lol. I suppose so :P

        Comment Hidden ( show )
    • Haha, yes! Exactly! :D

      Comment Hidden ( show )