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So im 18, never dated anyone before, and today when i tried asking this super super cute girl at a mall for her number. She later hinted me that id be getting it the next time shed be working(in 2 days). and on the other side is me..just ur average korean american guy. My co workers tell me i truly am out of her league if i think that way
Yeah, but your co-workers sound like assholes. They are trying to cock-block you by means of lowering your self-esteem before you even have a chance. Just go for it and if it doesn't work, who the fuck cares? If you get someone that is better than you in some way, then you know you did it right.
go for it. Especially "out of league" people often have a problem of getting too little attention, resulting in the few and bold getting lucky.
Worst case: She really is out of your league, you made a fool of yourself, but have made another experience and never have to ask yourself "what if".
Best case: You get to hook up with her.
If you weigh those 2 against each other: Be bold, try your luck, don't get too worked up about it(natural is always better, don't expect it to work and just be yourself, you can still get nervous _IF_ it works).
Yeh but why did she not give it to you then? Was she maybe trying to blow you off in a nice way?
If the girl is that hot then maybe she was, either way play it cool and start following her around everywhere she goes, and make sure to follow her home and wait outside her house in your car parked at the curb. All night long.